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Women need to be led but the modern dating world puts them squarely in the drivers seat and most of them can't handle it. This leads to them making bad choice after bad choice because they are forced to choose which one of a hundred strangers may actually be a decent guy. They invariably choose poorly because, like a child, they are distracted by shiny objects and then we have to hear about how "there are no good guys left".
It's a delusion female narcissistic behaviour during the 2yrs of glory. Checkout Vegas, LA, NYC, eastern Europe, etc. Tons of beautiful women but each is a broken condom or cheese burger away from expired.

I don't try to change women. The Currency of my time is with prerequisites. She's put in check or I hit the ejection button.

I don't hesitate to drop girls. Virus or not. Furthermore, if **** goes tits up, I'm good. I will watch the world burn. I have zero invested in any one particular girl.
 

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Rollo is a curmudgeon and offers no solutions but he's nailed down the depth of hypergamy in abortion. The right to murder babies. A lot of women are disgusting.
Right on. I find myself wanting to here Rollo and company go into solution based convo instead of the "work on yourself" go to the gym get good sleep and go out mumbo jumbo.
That shyt is easy to understand but actually deciphering woman speak and behavior is a different animal. But a lot of fun.
 

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Right on. I find myself wanting to here Rollo and company go into solution based convo instead of the "work on yourself" go to the gym get good sleep and go out mumbo jumbo.
That shyt is easy to understand but actually deciphering woman speak and behavior is a different animal. But a lot of fun.
He's one of the best insights ever to gender dynamics. Offers no prescription meaning, he can't be wrong but he calls out rsd julien and Tyler who have spent the last decade + in the trenches and media scandals. Rollo checked out before MySpace lulz.

He married epiphany phase. He knows SMV charts. He made it. He is married. He argues against it. I can't argue with him on gender dynamics. I find his lack of solution and contradiction in advice compared to what he does is annoying.

I will checkout book4 but I don't take value away from the repetitive ***** sessions or mgtow call outs. At least mgtow offers a solution drastic enough from the norn. I don't partake but I am not trashing monogamy and playing house lol on the regular.

I think Tates the only OG in the red pill. Tate offers a solution. Phd is a good thing but most guys cannot execute. Same with rsd julien drama. Most aren't wired enough.
 

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I find his lack of solution and contradiction in advice compared to what he does is annoying.
He doesnt bother me at all. Insight is insight whether he is happy or not. Hes not your typical looker but the dude has conviction.
I dont agree with a few of his ideas but none the less i agree that married game has far deeper consequences then trench game.

Going up to a beautiful women and have her tell you to "fck off loser" or " creep"! Is easy to overcome. Its just words and an opinion in a fraction of time.
Being with a women for 7 plus years is an entirely different thing to deal with.

DEEZ i like your feed back none the less. Good input
 

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He doesnt bother me at all. Insight is insight whether he is happy or not. Hes not your typical looker but the dude has conviction.
I dont agree with a few of his ideas but none the less i agree that married game has far deeper consequences then trench game.

Going up to a beautiful women and have her tell you to "fck off loser" or " creep"! Is easy to overcome. Its just words and an opinion in a fraction of time.
Being with a women for 7 plus years is an entirely different thing to deal with.

DEEZ i like your feed back none the less. Good input
Aware on trench game?

In terms of relationship dynamics, I don't think there's a better breakdown. The insights are solid but the "I don't give prescriptions" is a cop out. It is middle of the road fence sitting. Offers up no marriage but is married. Smv chart is by him. Top form smv is early side of twenty. He coins epiphany phase but that's what he played house with. Fortunately, it has worked out thus far without divorce rapey.

On all do respect, not sure I agree it's easy given the lack of men approaching today. TRP knows. 99% don't go get girls. By default I'm skeptical of any married dating coach or anybody playing house in the modern era.

I agree it's a diff thing to deal with 100%. IMHO it's why game is so important. Either she knows her place or **** off. #nextset
 

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Rollo the curmudgeon. Both hilarious and pretty dead on.

-Augustus-
I just wish he could offer more than that cop out of "I don't offer prescriptions" so, I can't be wrong. Meanwhile I am calling out rooshv and rsd Tyler from the castle walks of marriage. I can't argue really with the majority of what's in RM. It's bang on. It points out to the problems he's observed which is spot on. It just doesn't offer men a solution nor a practical framework to apply.

I await book 4. Curious on his take there. I can say, it's game on hard mode atm with corvid. Something I know about being in field and swinging the ****ing hammer. YouTube is full of guys preaching most of whom are not putting in the work.

I enjoy reading rollos work more than his podcasts tbh.
 

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By default I'm skeptical of any married dating coach or anybody playing house in the modern era.
Not myself. Ive have met a few men that were married and completely dominated their wives. And the wives are quite happy.

agree it's a diff thing to deal with 100%. IMHO it's why game is so important. Either she knows her place or **** off. #
This goes for any dynamic. Remember 1 thing about a wife verses a plate.
Your wife is watching your whole life. Plates do not get this access. Nor shoukd they.
 
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This sums it up 100% (from the article): “It’s like, ‘If this doesn’t go well, there are 20 other guys who look like you in my inbox.’

So, you'd better not have a so much as a crumb on your mouth or DARE say something she doesn't like or YOU'RE OUT!

F*uck that.

Most women, who have an innate inability to make up their mind anyway, are absolutely the drivers of the Dating Bear Market. Based on my experiences with well over 100 women the past few years, no one could possible convince me otherwise.

If you just see women as a small side dish on your huge plate of food, and see them as "fun" only, you'll be fine. Keep the door open a crack in the 1-1,000,000 chance she's a keeper.

Good luck.
It was always supposed to be 1 in a million. Dating is a fabricated past time mainly invented by women because it’s their number 1 hobby and the modern day guy started adopting women’s hobbies.

The way it’s supposed to work is you pursue your purpose, have a vibrant social life, and women on your wavelength show up when you LEAST expect it. When you LET GO. When your focus is on your purpose and not women, the right ones show up. All you need to do is have a social life and leave a crack OPEN.

Thats how it has always worked, regardless of social media and dating technologies. And that’s how it will work 10,000 years from now. When all the fads disappear.

Somewhere along the way, guys forgot the natural way of things and started pursuing women’s number 1 hobby of dating (the no life seducer/pua lifestyle).
 

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It was always supposed to be 1 in a million. Dating is a fabricated past time mainly invented by women because it’s their number 1 hobby and the modern day guy started adopting women’s hobbies.

Somewhere along the way, guys forgot the natural way of things and started pursuing women’s number 1 hobby of dating (the no life seducer/pua lifestyle).
Facts bro!! The only part I would add is that fathers and community would help a woman pick. Good fathers can pick female partners much better than the daughter. I really like when you said that men started adopting females #1 hobby. Thats real man. I used to be that guy. I used to think I was so cool dedicating my life to getting good at dating lolz.
 

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Women are supposed to have very little choice in mating partners. If you give women any real power you have just upset a divine natural order. Men and women should not even come together for anything other than mating and family life. Thats it. I cant believe how brainwashed we have become in Western society. We believed that the natural order of things was women openly fraternizing with men. The truth is the exact opposite. They are our domestic helpers. Thats it. We treat them well but never are they to be given ANY power outside of domestic affairs. Ironically they are the most happy with that arrangement.
 

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If I was given a penny everytime someone said the market is getting worse over the past 33 years of my player career I would be a millionaire.Apadt,react,overcome.
 

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Not myself. Ive have met a few men that were married and completely dominated their wives. And the wives are quite happy.
You would have to acknowledge, it is the outlier. Not the norm. Furthermore if you were a fly on the wall, you would see everything. Even the best LTR anf or marriages i know, you can see female nature in hyper drive from time to time.

This goes for any dynamic. Remember 1 thing about a wife verses a plate.
Your wife is watching your whole life. Plates do not get this access. Nor shoukd they.
I am watching Csppy podcast aka crona chan. Cappy advice "don't get married." i couldn't agree more.
 

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You would have to acknowledge, it is the outlier. Not the norm. Furthermore if you were a fly on the wall, you would see everything. Even the best LTR anf or marriages i know, you can see female nature in hyper drive from time to time
Not sure were you are from but i just don't find this to be true. Yes women are hypergamous but they are still looking or attracted to good men.
Im not black pill. I just dont agree with.
Richard the entrepreneur in cars or whatever is a great example of BP scar tissue. He says he is RP but he indeed in language is BP. Im surprised Rollo hasnt picked up on this yet.
 

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Not sure were you are from but i just don't find this to be true. Yes women are hypergamous but they are still looking or attracted to good men.
Im not black pill. I just dont agree with.
Richard the entrepreneur in cars or whatever is a great example of BP scar tissue. He says he is RP but he indeed in language is BP. Im surprised Rollo hasnt picked up on this yet.
Rollo is in on the griff. The breakdown of gender dynamics is spot on. Rich basically parrots rollo. Word for word.

The divorce stat is telling. The majority of men know what red pill is but guys are dumb and marry the first post wall willing to play house after best yrs are done. Much of the red pill channels are guys married to single moms and or epiphany phase. They regurgitate the content but are following the beaten path.

There's a level of selfishness inherent in people. Laws simp and pander. There are men who push mgtow who now think women are changing. Its beyond pathetic.

As for hypergamy it's been beat to death. Its bubble wrapped up as the explanation for cratered SMV.

Since we're on the topic of solutions, outside catch and release i don't see one. Man can make a educated guess but outside the acquisition of best yrs top form SMV 18-23, i see it nothing short of simping.

One of my mates was laughing at the amount of past flings taking him off social media. They have got hitched or engaged. Its plausible deniability. Its a measure to avoid fallout or back sliding.

I suspect that our motivation are separate. To each their own. I'm aware of the **** hole SMP. I am not putting it back together nor playing captain save a hoe. I subscribe more to the Aaron clarey bachelor pad economics and enjoying the decline.

Every set is practice. Blow me or blow me out. Hotter girls are turning 18 19 20 21 every day. The SMP is a dumpster fire. This is the pool men are playing house with.

I've spoke about the crash. Hitting bottom. I'm out for number one. I'll watch the world burn. Next set onward.

String mate, good luck on your endeavour.
 

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The divorce stat is telling. The majority of men know what red pill is but guys are dumb and marry the first post wall willing to play house after best yrs are done. Much of the red pill channels are guys married to single moms and or epiphany phase. They regurgitate the content but are following the beaten path.
Cant disagree here Deez. Some men choose to yes but still find decent women. As you know i married Asian. Is it a buffer? Hell no but ill tell you she is more respectful then most women i have dated here. "Respect" is my currency and "obey" is a close 2nd.

I would not marry a western cultured girl. I would date or maybe live in and that's an iff.

There's a level of selfishness inherent in people. Laws simp and pander. There are men who push mgtow who now think women are changing. Its beyond pathetic.

As for hypergamy it's been beat to death. Its bubble wrapped up as the explanation for cratered SMV.
I dont care for BP. Maybe beat to death but if a guy lets himself go then thats his problem. She will monkey branch or follow him into lazyville. If she has brains she will find a better mate.
I only read Rollos book 1 and i need to get my butt in gear and get book 2.

Anyone know if there is any application in it rather then the clinical part?

Guys at work ask me all the time what their women mean when they say this or that. They found my translations to be true and they come back. They don't read though so i can't offer books.
I do wish Rollo would be more situational speaking rather then symptomatic.

Best thing a guy can do is find a women raised by both parents and shows respect for them both. That's a good start. Having respect for the community is another good foundation.
 

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Cant disagree here Deez. Some men choose to yes but still find decent women. As you know i married Asian. Is it a buffer? Hell no but ill tell you she is more respectful then most women i have dated here. "Respect" is my currency and "obey" is a close 2nd.
Are you married now? I've crushed Asian baeee before. Tight. Petite. Squeelers lulz. Very feminine and traditional. They have zero tolerance for feminine, low T men who are incompetent and can't execute. 100x more proper then white girls. If westernized or multiple generation UK, they are practically white girls. Several in current rotation.

would not marry a western cultured girl. I would date or maybe live in and that's an iff.

No dice for me. I want to go Cobra Tate lifestyle on the world. Ok not quite but his approach to the game is money. She either follows my lead or **** off. Blow me or blow me out. The girls love is blind breakdown by Donovan is telling. It shows up what **** hole the SMP is. It is so even with game. I had a plate on a workers visa trying to get a hold of me amidst quarantine lol. Again there's no substitute for desire. I cannot stress that enough. Given the fallout she has to endure if.


I dont care for BP. Maybe beat to death but if a guy lets himself go then thats his problem. She will monkey branch or follow him into lazyville. If she has brains she will find a better mate.
I only read Rollos book 1 and i need to get my butt in gear and get book 2.
Pretty sure AJ leaked pdf copies online.

Anyone know if there is any application in it rather then the clinical part?
Aware me. What do you mean?

Guys at work ask me all the time what their women mean when they say this or that. They found my translations to be true and they come back. They don't read though so i can't offer books.
I DON'T TOUCH IT @work.

I haven't met the right one but one day...


Plausible deniability FTW!

do wish Rollo would be more situational speaking rather then symptomatic.

Best thing a guy can do is find a women raised by both parents and shows respect for them both. That's a good start. Having respect for the community is another good foundation.
I like molyneux for reason and evidence. I don't agree with everything but he's consistent in the delivery. He's did a great 180 on christianity. He has kind of come at Peterson which is savage given the timing.

I like Rollo but the MSG is not much different than say TFM minus ****ing dolls. TFM is intelligent. The doll smashing is insanity but as is marriage in the modern era. It is ****ed to risk the farm.

There's a new RMG 21 podcast with cobra Tate. Tate spits bars on the podcast. The insights were great. I highly recommend it. Cobra is the only red pill lad I can follow through and through.

Similar to rsd Julien, 100% of men aren't alpha nor rich in ability to execute the following. Both of these fellas are antifragile. They can get zeroed our and comeback like a Phoenix. 100x harder.

String mate, I think if you are to play house in any first world, you must make a contingency plan for exit if **** goes tits up. Similar to Tate, I'd burn the whole thing down and set the house on fire before divorce raped. If more men go to the table with the predicament of going to jail and torching everything before being cucked on their dime in divorce rape, things will change.

I can't survive jail so, I won't risk the following.
 

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Are you married now? I've crushed Asian baeee before. Tight. Petite. Squeelers lulz. Very feminine and traditional. They have zero tolerance for feminine, low T men who are incompetent and can't execute. 100x more proper then white girls. If westernized or multiple generation UK, they are practically white girls. Several in current rotation.
Yes i am and i know what you mean. My wife will not tolerate suplicating insecure shyt.
Romance to an asian girl is not exactly the same as a US girl.
But both respond to their hair being pulled. Lol

Its a broad scope but if i could say the short version is she is a bigger reflection of myself then I was used to when i met her.
The only real way to experience it is get out of the country.
Is it a cure all. No but its s good contrast.
 

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Are you married now? I've crushed Asian baeee before. Tight. Petite. Squeelers lulz. Very feminine and traditional. They have zero tolerance for feminine, low T men who are incompetent and can't execute. 100x more proper then white girls. If westernized or multiple generation UK, they are practically white girls. Several in current rotation.
That's what's up bro. I 100% need to crush an Asian girl before I graduate college. It's on my bucket list I guess you could say lol.

Any tips on smashing Asian girls specifically or is it just standard game and looksmaxxxing?
 
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