MatureDJ
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
article: Polygamy, Robot Sex Are Consequences of the Sexual Revolution
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
The Duke
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I see more "couples" on Tinder looking for 3-somes than ever before. Also see more married women on Tinder looking for "boyfriends". I see more men willing to loan their wife out so she can get railed by some other dude.(insane) Even know 2 couples that do this.
I see less people that value relationships than ever before. People don't want to make the effort, its easier to throw the relationship away when it becomes too difficult and find a new one.
The entire "sexual revolution" makes me want to give up on any type of meaningful relationship and fuhk anything and everything (semi-attractive) that walks. Maybe even become the single male star of the swingers club and fuhk every dudes hot wife!
I see less people that value relationships than ever before. People don't want to make the effort, its easier to throw the relationship away when it becomes too difficult and find a new one.
The entire "sexual revolution" makes me want to give up on any type of meaningful relationship and fuhk anything and everything (semi-attractive) that walks. Maybe even become the single male star of the swingers club and fuhk every dudes hot wife!
MoreThanSmooth
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As I've said in other threads, the "sexual revolution" was not a revolution. All it did was make casual sex "cool".
And instead of encouraging mutual respect from both genders towards each other, it just copy+pasted the messed up values of sex some men used to harbour onto women. Be good to each other? Lolno. How about now women can treat men like crap too? Woo, revolution!
Hence massive inflation of STIs and drug-resistant STIs (since sex ed did not get any additional attention despite the liberalisation of sex), unplanned pregnancies and increasingly shallow relationships that mean nothing.
Loose women now delude themselves into thinking they're "liberated" and "edgy" by chowing down on every d*ck that they can get and collecting all the venereal diseases. Then they burst into tears and can't understand why they feel cheap, even while they're shagging Chad five minutes after they met him with no protection.
Meanwhile low self-esteem guys try to f*ck literally everything they can, even if they're not attracted to a woman, just because they don't feel man enough if they don't.
I've even seen articles saying how "liberating" it is to cheat on your BF or GF. It's f*cked up IMO.
And instead of encouraging mutual respect from both genders towards each other, it just copy+pasted the messed up values of sex some men used to harbour onto women. Be good to each other? Lolno. How about now women can treat men like crap too? Woo, revolution!
Hence massive inflation of STIs and drug-resistant STIs (since sex ed did not get any additional attention despite the liberalisation of sex), unplanned pregnancies and increasingly shallow relationships that mean nothing.
Loose women now delude themselves into thinking they're "liberated" and "edgy" by chowing down on every d*ck that they can get and collecting all the venereal diseases. Then they burst into tears and can't understand why they feel cheap, even while they're shagging Chad five minutes after they met him with no protection.
Meanwhile low self-esteem guys try to f*ck literally everything they can, even if they're not attracted to a woman, just because they don't feel man enough if they don't.
I've even seen articles saying how "liberating" it is to cheat on your BF or GF. It's f*cked up IMO.
wifehunter
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It's the devaluation of sex.
People want instant gratifcation without one thought to the consiquences. Sex is a personal, and private matter. People have turned it into impersonal, and public.
So they take turns to fukking each other. It really only amounts to a serial mass orgy.
The masses, are asses.
People want instant gratifcation without one thought to the consiquences. Sex is a personal, and private matter. People have turned it into impersonal, and public.
So they take turns to fukking each other. It really only amounts to a serial mass orgy.
The masses, are asses.
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There are always people that do not understand what swinging is really about, and that's ok. We are swinging for many years and I can honestly tell you that it helped us a lot. And we are happier than ever together! Sex is sex, it's just a carnal need. But love is a totally different thing. We have our rules while swinging, the prior one is "always doing it together". I know that many people are thinking that swinging is about big parties where orgies happen. But it's not like that. We have only met people from swinginglove.club, we are inviting them out a few times, and after we know them pretty well and if there is a connection, we are inviting them over. We are not doing it with random people at swinging clubs. Anyway, there would be A LOT to say about this, but I don't want to bore anyone.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
DEEZEDBRAH
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I blame low testosterone.I see more "couples" on Tinder looking for 3-somes than ever before. Also see more married women on Tinder looking for "boyfriends". I see more men willing to loan their wife out so she can get railed by some other dude.(insane) Even know 2 couples that do this.
I see less people that value relationships than ever before. People don't want to make the effort, its easier to throw the relationship away when it becomes too difficult and find a new one.
The entire "sexual revolution" makes me want to give up on any type of meaningful relationship and fuhk anything and everything (semi-attractive) that walks. Maybe even become the single male star of the swingers club and fuhk every dudes hot wife!