MatureDJ
Master Don Juan
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Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I blame low testosterone.I see more "couples" on Tinder looking for 3-somes than ever before. Also see more married women on Tinder looking for "boyfriends". I see more men willing to loan their wife out so she can get railed by some other dude.(insane) Even know 2 couples that do this.
I see less people that value relationships than ever before. People don't want to make the effort, its easier to throw the relationship away when it becomes too difficult and find a new one.
The entire "sexual revolution" makes me want to give up on any type of meaningful relationship and fuhk anything and everything (semi-attractive) that walks. Maybe even become the single male star of the swingers club and fuhk every dudes hot wife!![]()