MatureDJ
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Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
article: No One is Entitled to Sex: Why We Should Mock the Nice Guys of OkCupid
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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The more they mock and mistreat nice guys the better, they have to kill em all and force them to revaluate their life style.
Their power only comes from that cancer called "nice guys", once the white knights and captain save a ho die, we can reboot the system.
Their power only comes from that cancer called "nice guys", once the white knights and captain save a ho die, we can reboot the system.
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Point 1, this is a 6 year old "article"
Point 2, these "nice guys" do it to themselves. I can sympathize for their ignorance but they don't need me protecting them from the "mean women" they need to grow a set and stop living in dreamland.
Point 2, these "nice guys" do it to themselves. I can sympathize for their ignorance but they don't need me protecting them from the "mean women" they need to grow a set and stop living in dreamland.
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Well that system won’t be rebooted short of a catastrophic event.
Think about it this way. If a man has no intention of marrying a woman she will need someone to take care of her physically and emotionally. Eventually. Let the guys stuck in the imperative have a slice of the pie when you’ve had your fill.
I don’t see a problem.
Think about it this way. If a man has no intention of marrying a woman she will need someone to take care of her physically and emotionally. Eventually. Let the guys stuck in the imperative have a slice of the pie when you’ve had your fill.
I don’t see a problem.
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I think the assumption that a guy is only “fake nice” just to get in her pants is overly cynical at times.
Maybe he’s a blue pill guy who genuinely wants to date her and honestly believes that “friends first” is a good idea.
Not every “nice guy” is some scammer looking to pump and dump.
Maybe he’s a blue pill guy who genuinely wants to date her and honestly believes that “friends first” is a good idea.
Not every “nice guy” is some scammer looking to pump and dump.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.