MatureDJ
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
article: No One is Entitled to Sex: Why We Should Mock the Nice Guys of OkCupid
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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The more they mock and mistreat nice guys the better, they have to kill em all and force them to revaluate their life style.
Their power only comes from that cancer called "nice guys", once the white knights and captain save a ho die, we can reboot the system.
Their power only comes from that cancer called "nice guys", once the white knights and captain save a ho die, we can reboot the system.
Infern0
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Point 1, this is a 6 year old "article"
Point 2, these "nice guys" do it to themselves. I can sympathize for their ignorance but they don't need me protecting them from the "mean women" they need to grow a set and stop living in dreamland.
Point 2, these "nice guys" do it to themselves. I can sympathize for their ignorance but they don't need me protecting them from the "mean women" they need to grow a set and stop living in dreamland.
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Well that system won’t be rebooted short of a catastrophic event.
Think about it this way. If a man has no intention of marrying a woman she will need someone to take care of her physically and emotionally. Eventually. Let the guys stuck in the imperative have a slice of the pie when you’ve had your fill.
I don’t see a problem.
Think about it this way. If a man has no intention of marrying a woman she will need someone to take care of her physically and emotionally. Eventually. Let the guys stuck in the imperative have a slice of the pie when you’ve had your fill.
I don’t see a problem.
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I think the assumption that a guy is only “fake nice” just to get in her pants is overly cynical at times.
Maybe he’s a blue pill guy who genuinely wants to date her and honestly believes that “friends first” is a good idea.
Not every “nice guy” is some scammer looking to pump and dump.
Maybe he’s a blue pill guy who genuinely wants to date her and honestly believes that “friends first” is a good idea.
Not every “nice guy” is some scammer looking to pump and dump.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.