MatureDJ
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
article: No One is Entitled to Sex: Why We Should Mock the Nice Guys of OkCupid
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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The more they mock and mistreat nice guys the better, they have to kill em all and force them to revaluate their life style.
Their power only comes from that cancer called "nice guys", once the white knights and captain save a ho die, we can reboot the system.
Their power only comes from that cancer called "nice guys", once the white knights and captain save a ho die, we can reboot the system.
Infern0
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Point 1, this is a 6 year old "article"
Point 2, these "nice guys" do it to themselves. I can sympathize for their ignorance but they don't need me protecting them from the "mean women" they need to grow a set and stop living in dreamland.
Point 2, these "nice guys" do it to themselves. I can sympathize for their ignorance but they don't need me protecting them from the "mean women" they need to grow a set and stop living in dreamland.
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Well that system won’t be rebooted short of a catastrophic event.
Think about it this way. If a man has no intention of marrying a woman she will need someone to take care of her physically and emotionally. Eventually. Let the guys stuck in the imperative have a slice of the pie when you’ve had your fill.
I don’t see a problem.
Think about it this way. If a man has no intention of marrying a woman she will need someone to take care of her physically and emotionally. Eventually. Let the guys stuck in the imperative have a slice of the pie when you’ve had your fill.
I don’t see a problem.
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I think the assumption that a guy is only “fake nice” just to get in her pants is overly cynical at times.
Maybe he’s a blue pill guy who genuinely wants to date her and honestly believes that “friends first” is a good idea.
Not every “nice guy” is some scammer looking to pump and dump.
Maybe he’s a blue pill guy who genuinely wants to date her and honestly believes that “friends first” is a good idea.
Not every “nice guy” is some scammer looking to pump and dump.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.