"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Article: Milk: is it good or bad for us?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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If he "owes everything" to drinking milk, he should just give up on life.Drum&Bass said:Heres a guy whose been lifting for years with more experience than any of you.
who says MILK is bad ?
He's been in the game for 20 years.
By the way, I stopped getting daily diarrhea, improved my acne, and just generally felt better as soon as I stopped drinking milk. Milk is for babies, and mammals developed lactose intolerance for a reason.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Drum&Bass
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why ??? it works for him and he has the physique to show for it. Some people can drink it, some people think if they don't drink milk the quality of there life improves..If he "owes everything" to drinking milk, he should just give up on life.
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If you wanna drink milk do it, if you dont...then ****ing dont....its ****ing simple...stop doing what others tell you and do what comes naturally.
Quit yapping like little **** *****es and test the **** for yourself... if you get cancer b/c of milk...then you will find out huh? Your a ****ing man act like it....****... when will some of you people learn?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
tj
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There is an article in this months Mens fitness on how how to cut and bulk using milk.Mad Manic said:Good for bulking, bad for cutting. End of discussion.
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