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article: Men need to be working — and fewer and fewer of them are

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Currently married men who refuse to work hurt their wives and children by refusing to assist in helping their spouse fulfill her natural desire to be at home with the children. One survey found that women with children under 18 years of age preferred being at home to working.
A virtuous man does not spend his days on the couch playing video games, drinking alcohol, or watching pornography. Career coach Ken Coleman recently commented on the lack of men working by explaining that having a job helps people mature. “Making a contribution for yourself and for others,” Coleman said, will help men feel “alive.”
my opinion: Men are motivated to work by poon - no poon, no work.
 

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my opinion: Men are motivated to work by poon - no poon, no work.
Career coach Ken Coleman isn't going to want to admit that contributing on society's terms to an unreciprocal and corrupt society isn't going to make one feel "alive". Got to keep that income rolling...
 

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I'm kinda lost for 2023, so we now have to help them more at home so they can work on their career or should we work on our career so they can stay at home with the kids?
 

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my opinion: Men are motivated to work by poon - no poon, no work.
I agree, Why bother to work when there's no poon? Though you're exaggerating this trend.

Many workers not getting poon also aren't near the salary level where they can directly pay for sex regularly either. That's a bad place as a worker. No poon in conventional dating + not enough salary to pay for sex.

In 2022, 89% of men 25-54 were working. That was 97% in 1962 in that age range. Most men 25-54 are still working on the hope that they'll get new poon or keep their existing poon.

I'm kinda lost for 2023, so we now have to help them more at home so they can work on their career or should we work on our career so they can stay at home with the kids?
If those are the only 2 choices, the better choice is to work on our careers so they can stay home with kids.

Interactions where women outearn men are unnatural and unstable. Yet, for a lot of reasons, they are becoming more common. Some of these interactions are turning into multiyear relationships.

Against my better judgment, I have been on dates with a female doctor and a female lawyer. Both dates sucked big time. They both outearn me. I do alright at a white collar professional with an advanced degree (MBA). The doctor was boring and had a bad attitude. I had no interest in her and she didn't have any in me. The lawyer wasn't feminine despite being thin and having 1-2 interesting hobbies. I didn't have sex with either and that likely saved me a lot of aggravation.

Most men who do have extended relationships with high powered career women don't report that it's a good time. Even a lot of wimpy, blue pill, non-red pill aware men would agree with this.

It's not a good idea for any man to sacrifice his career for a woman. Let these high powered white collar careerist women cuddle up at night with their advanced degrees, cats, and dogs. Only choose to date women who make less money than you do, whatever you make. It's going to feel better that way.
 

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Not just poon but also traditional gender roles (i.e. being the head of the household). Remove the incentives for work and men will stop working. Wow, who could have imagined??
Pretty much everyone
 

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Ultimately, this article is correct.

Many businesses are struggling to find men do to labor such as welding or fabrication. This means that equipment that breaks down won't get repaired, and eventually it adds up as knowledge of how to do things gets lost.

Part of the reason Venezuela is such an utter sh!thole now is because everyone who had the means to do so left the country, and now when the power station breaks down they barely have the manpower with the knowledge to fix it, so their power grid is garbage. East Germany ended up the same way, a bunch of people who were used to being lazy because there was no incentive to do anything other than the bare minimum.

My gf was amazed the other day that I could diagnose and repair a coolant leak in my car for under $100, she asked me where I learned to do that. I couldn't really give an answer other than "By being a man".

I understand that the lack of motivation is there in current society, but men should still be learning and doing manly things despite what stupid feminists and soyboys say, because those people ain't worth sh!t.

Good times leak to weak men, weak men lead to hard times.
 

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Ultimately, this article is correct.

Many businesses are struggling to find men do to labor such as welding or fabrication. This means that equipment that breaks down won't get repaired, and eventually it adds up as knowledge of how to do things gets lost.

Part of the reason Venezuela is such an utter sh!thole now is because everyone who had the means to do so left the country, and now when the power station breaks down they barely have the manpower with the knowledge to fix it, so their power grid is garbage. East Germany ended up the same way, a bunch of people who were used to being lazy because there was no incentive to do anything other than the bare minimum.

My gf was amazed the other day that I could diagnose and repair a coolant leak in my car for under $100, she asked me where I learned to do that. I couldn't really give an answer other than "By being a man".

I understand that the lack of motivation is there in current society, but men should still be learning and doing manly things despite what stupid feminists and soyboys say, because those people ain't worth sh!t.

Good times leak to weak men, weak men lead to hard times.
It's not that men dont want to be able to accomplish suck tasks, it's that most men were never tought about it.

Cant be mad at a kid grown from a single mother and female teachers if he doesnt know how to fix a flat tyre.
 

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NILF -- Not in the Labor Force

The primary reason men of prime working age 25-54 aren't working as much anymore is because of a lack of sex. Why bother to work when you're in a sexless marriage OR an unmarred man who is incel or borderline incel?
 

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NILF -- Not in the Labor Force
The author needs to get with the proper acronym.

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How are the archons going to get their loosh if we're not working ourselves to death?
 

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Wtf is this pathetic thread?

So y'all agree with this sentiment? I just made a thread about this, befire i even read this sad azz thread and responses; https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/if-you-stay-ready-you-dont-have-to-get-ready.279670/

Its a chicken vs egg dilemma. Its a man duti to "create " an egg(in other words be a chicken that delivers golden eggs) . The ONLY one time when you are allowed and even obligated to be a chicken gothdamn.

if you let poon, the most fickle thing known to man, control you and your motivation you are a FOOL. So what y'all want? Like the Muslim world, force women to be with men?

wtf makes you think you have " the right to p00n" if you never did any effort? Just let these types of men ans their genes die out, we dont need them anyway.
 

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According to the article....

Consider that in 1962, about 97% of men ages 25 to 54 were working or looking for work. Today, that number is closer to 89%.
The difference between 97% of prime working age men working and 89% of men working age men working is millions of men.

With 89% of prime working age men working, we can say that the typical man is this age range works. The typical 25-54 year old man is not a man living in a parent's basement, playing video games and masturbating to a porno tube website. Sexlessness rates also in this age group are increasing, so there are plenty of working sexless men. Currently working sexless men are the future pipeline for NEETs.

I think there's some merit to the idea that a man can be in his 20s/30s, having participated in school or work at some point in life, and not gotten laid as a result of his participation in school and/or work. That motivates him to seek out a NEET lifestyle once he gets laid off from a job.
 

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You´ve picked my interest. What is your motivation?
To better myself and my life. Because I have drive and ambition...I want to be the best at everything that I do.

Doesn't matter if I am cleaning toilets or writing code.

Doesn't matter if I'm playing cards with friends, a friendly game of ping pong, driving go karts at the amusement park or playing for a championship in soccer.

Make no mistake, I am out to kick your ass.

That comes from within and is something that is not found very much anymore.
 

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To better myself and my life. Because I have drive and ambition...I want to be the best at everything that I do. Doesn't matter if I am cleaning toilets or writing code. Doesn't matter if I'm playing cards with friends, a friendly game of ping pong, driving go karts at the amusement park or playing for a championship. Make no mistake, I am out to kick your ass.

That comes from within and is something that is not found very much anymore.
You remind my of my dad. He used to say "You want to sell snacks on the streets? Then you better be the best d@mn snack guy in the world"
 
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