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article: Men need to be working — and fewer and fewer of them are

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Currently married men who refuse to work hurt their wives and children by refusing to assist in helping their spouse fulfill her natural desire to be at home with the children. One survey found that women with children under 18 years of age preferred being at home to working.
A virtuous man does not spend his days on the couch playing video games, drinking alcohol, or watching pornography. Career coach Ken Coleman recently commented on the lack of men working by explaining that having a job helps people mature. “Making a contribution for yourself and for others,” Coleman said, will help men feel “alive.”
my opinion: Men are motivated to work by poon - no poon, no work.
 

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Good news for us old guys
 

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I'm kinda lost for 2023, so we now have to help them more at home so they can work on their career or should we work on our career so they can stay at home with the kids?
 

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my opinion: Men are motivated to work by poon - no poon, no work.
I agree, Why bother to work when there's no poon? Though you're exaggerating this trend.

Many workers not getting poon also aren't near the salary level where they can directly pay for sex regularly either. That's a bad place as a worker. No poon in conventional dating + not enough salary to pay for sex.

In 2022, 89% of men 25-54 were working. That was 97% in 1962 in that age range. Most men 25-54 are still working on the hope that they'll get new poon or keep their existing poon.

I'm kinda lost for 2023, so we now have to help them more at home so they can work on their career or should we work on our career so they can stay at home with the kids?
If those are the only 2 choices, the better choice is to work on our careers so they can stay home with kids.

Interactions where women outearn men are unnatural and unstable. Yet, for a lot of reasons, they are becoming more common. Some of these interactions are turning into multiyear relationships.

Against my better judgment, I have been on dates with a female doctor and a female lawyer. Both dates sucked big time. They both outearn me. I do alright at a white collar professional with an advanced degree (MBA). The doctor was boring and had a bad attitude. I had no interest in her and she didn't have any in me. The lawyer wasn't feminine despite being thin and having 1-2 interesting hobbies. I didn't have sex with either and that likely saved me a lot of aggravation.

Most men who do have extended relationships with high powered career women don't report that it's a good time. Even a lot of wimpy, blue pill, non-red pill aware men would agree with this.

It's not a good idea for any man to sacrifice his career for a woman. Let these high powered white collar careerist women cuddle up at night with their advanced degrees, cats, and dogs. Only choose to date women who make less money than you do, whatever you make. It's going to feel better that way.
 

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Not just poon but also traditional gender roles (i.e. being the head of the household). Remove the incentives for work and men will stop working. Wow, who could have imagined??
Pretty much everyone
 

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Ultimately, this article is correct.

Many businesses are struggling to find men do to labor such as welding or fabrication. This means that equipment that breaks down won't get repaired, and eventually it adds up as knowledge of how to do things gets lost.

Part of the reason Venezuela is such an utter sh!thole now is because everyone who had the means to do so left the country, and now when the power station breaks down they barely have the manpower with the knowledge to fix it, so their power grid is garbage. East Germany ended up the same way, a bunch of people who were used to being lazy because there was no incentive to do anything other than the bare minimum.

My gf was amazed the other day that I could diagnose and repair a coolant leak in my car for under $100, she asked me where I learned to do that. I couldn't really give an answer other than "By being a man".

I understand that the lack of motivation is there in current society, but men should still be learning and doing manly things despite what stupid feminists and soyboys say, because those people ain't worth sh!t.

Good times leak to weak men, weak men lead to hard times.
 
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Ultimately, this article is correct.

Many businesses are struggling to find men do to labor such as welding or fabrication. This means that equipment that breaks down won't get repaired, and eventually it adds up as knowledge of how to do things gets lost.

Part of the reason Venezuela is such an utter sh!thole now is because everyone who had the means to do so left the country, and now when the power station breaks down they barely have the manpower with the knowledge to fix it, so their power grid is garbage. East Germany ended up the same way, a bunch of people who were used to being lazy because there was no incentive to do anything other than the bare minimum.

My gf was amazed the other day that I could diagnose and repair a coolant leak in my car for under $100, she asked me where I learned to do that. I couldn't really give an answer other than "By being a man".

I understand that the lack of motivation is there in current society, but men should still be learning and doing manly things despite what stupid feminists and soyboys say, because those people ain't worth sh!t.

Good times leak to weak men, weak men lead to hard times.
It's not that men dont want to be able to accomplish suck tasks, it's that most men were never tought about it.

Cant be mad at a kid grown from a single mother and female teachers if he doesnt know how to fix a flat tyre.
 
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