Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
To be fair, I can’t hate on Legocels. There are far worse things than playing with Legos. I honestly don’t think it’s a big deal.https://melmagazine.com/en-us/story/brickheads-adult-fans-of-lego-reddit-twitter
I guess they're not spinning many plates, LOL.
EDIT: Some are married.
I guess they don't care and aren't bothered by it like many guys on here are. There's many paths to happiness, going out and having sex is just one of many. Not sure why you're laughing at it, are you implying that you're better and happier than they are? Because if you are then you'd be wrong in most cases.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
No, I'm just saying that these guys (at least the single ones, especially the one that basically is a MGTOW) are not out "macking" or doing what everyone here and in the PUA community, like the Red Pill Group, says they should do.
and I belive they are doing what the red pill people say they should do, do whatever you want and don't make woman a priority, if more guys did this, the whole dating market would be better, jsut imagine, woman would have to behave or she would be traded by legos or video games no woman lego would survive that
That is the most important point about hobbies and/or self-improvement. We have control over these things, so if you focus on improving, you will improve.
Everyone except me then. I would say they should do what makes them happy in life, if going out to pick up women is one such thing then I'd say they should do it. Not everyone is as desperate and sex addicted as the PUA and red pill community.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I’ve had my share of one night stands. They get awkward after the 3rd time and the next day you’re like wtf was I thinking
I got the same feeling after I 1NS-ed a gal that I later learned was mentally retarded (only mildly, but still!)
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
