You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
To be fair, I can’t hate on Legocels. There are far worse things than playing with Legos. I honestly don’t think it’s a big deal.https://melmagazine.com/en-us/story/brickheads-adult-fans-of-lego-reddit-twitter
I guess they're not spinning many plates, LOL.
EDIT: Some are married.
I guess they don't care and aren't bothered by it like many guys on here are. There's many paths to happiness, going out and having sex is just one of many. Not sure why you're laughing at it, are you implying that you're better and happier than they are? Because if you are then you'd be wrong in most cases.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
No, I'm just saying that these guys (at least the single ones, especially the one that basically is a MGTOW) are not out "macking" or doing what everyone here and in the PUA community, like the Red Pill Group, says they should do.
and I belive they are doing what the red pill people say they should do, do whatever you want and don't make woman a priority, if more guys did this, the whole dating market would be better, jsut imagine, woman would have to behave or she would be traded by legos or video games no woman lego would survive that
That is the most important point about hobbies and/or self-improvement. We have control over these things, so if you focus on improving, you will improve.
Everyone except me then. I would say they should do what makes them happy in life, if going out to pick up women is one such thing then I'd say they should do it. Not everyone is as desperate and sex addicted as the PUA and red pill community.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I’ve had my share of one night stands. They get awkward after the 3rd time and the next day you’re like wtf was I thinking
I got the same feeling after I 1NS-ed a gal that I later learned was mentally retarded (only mildly, but still!)
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
