"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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article: Meet the #BrickHeads — the Millennial Guys Staying Home on Friday Night to Play With Legos

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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It's a hobby! Why are you always picking on me! Nah, I'm kidding
 

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I guess they're not spinning many plates, LOL.
I guess they don't care and aren't bothered by it like many guys on here are. There's many paths to happiness, going out and having sex is just one of many. Not sure why you're laughing at it, are you implying that you're better and happier than they are? Because if you are then you'd be wrong in most cases.

Me and my girlfriend have bought some of those large and expensive sets the last couple of years. They're great and we have a good time building them together. Yeah, that's right, me and my girlfriend play with Lego together. Then we go have some steaming hot sex.

Why do you think you can't have it all?
 

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The average guy is no longer bullsh1tting himself into thinking than going out getting tipsy and spending tons money will get him a one night stand.

Couple this news with a decreasing flow of people to night clubs and we get what is going on, hypergamy is common knowledge right now so is the idea of a cost/benefit ratio before doing anything for the average man.

I'm not ashamed to say it, when Im in western Europe I dont even bother to hit clubs and bars, I stay home doing my stuff or resting from my training sessions cause I know that at least 4-5 times a years I'll be sent few weeks in eastern Europe where its game on even for a guy with an average look given enough social skills.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Not sure why you're laughing at it, are you implying that you're better and happier than they are? Because if you are then you'd be wrong in most cases.
No, I'm just saying that these guys (at least the single ones, especially the one that basically is a MGTOW) are not out "macking" or doing what everyone here and in the PUA community, like the Red Pill Group, says they should do.
 

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No, I'm just saying that these guys (at least the single ones, especially the one that basically is a MGTOW) are not out "macking" or doing what everyone here and in the PUA community, like the Red Pill Group, says they should do.
and I belive they are doing what the red pill people say they should do, do whatever you want and don't make woman a priority, if more guys did this, the whole dating market would be better, jsut imagine, woman would have to behave or she would be traded by legos or video games no woman lego would survive that
 

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With legos and video games, you can make progress.

With dating (generally), you get to wait on a woman, who will then flake on you. And, if she does show up, is she just there for a meal?

Building a house made of sh!t, has no rewards. Unless you like flies.
 

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With legos and video games, you can make progress.

With dating (generally), you get to wait on a woman, who will then flake on you. And, if she does show up, is she just there for a meal?

Building a house made of sh!t, has no rewards. Unless you like flies.
That is the most important point about hobbies and/or self-improvement. We have control over these things, so if you focus on improving, you will improve.

With women, men have much less control.
 

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No, I'm just saying that these guys (at least the single ones, especially the one that basically is a MGTOW) are not out "macking" or doing what everyone here and in the PUA community, like the Red Pill Group, says they should do.
Everyone except me then. I would say they should do what makes them happy in life, if going out to pick up women is one such thing then I'd say they should do it. Not everyone is as desperate and sex addicted as the PUA and red pill community.

They do one thing right, they do what the love doing and don't give a fvck what a bunch of dudes on the internet thinks about it. They don't give in to the social expectations and pressures. More than what could be said for a bunch of guys in the red pill community who daily feel the need to try impress a bunch of random dudes on the internet about how masculine they are, fvcking spineless men in disguise.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Let’s go back a week from now for the perfect story about this:

I just got done working 11 hours at the wind farm, hit the gym for an hour. I now come home and I have a choice, watch Netflix and build the Star Wars star destroyer that showed up on my doorstep 2 days ago or..... go to the hoochie bar in middle of nowhere Texas to do shots and maybe game a chick who’s got chlymydia.

I’ll pass, keep my money, pay my student loans, and buy a new truck, for when I can move back to a bigger city, but a house and game hot 25 year old 2 years out of school
 

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Everyone except me then. I would say they should do what makes them happy in life, if going out to pick up women is one such thing then I'd say they should do it. Not everyone is as desperate and sex addicted as the PUA and red pill community.

They do one thing right, they do what the love doing and don't give a fvck what a bunch of dudes on the internet thinks about it. They don't give in to the social expectations and pressures. More than what could be said for a bunch of guys in the red pill community who daily feel the need to try impress a bunch of random dudes on the internet about how masculine they are, fvcking spineless men in disguise.
I’ve had my share of one night stands. They get awkward after the 3rd time and the next day you’re like wtf was I thinking
 

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I don't own any Legos but they have released some pretty cool stuff in the last several years, compared to what they had when I was a lad.
 

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Don't see what the big deal is. Some guys have hobbies. Some guys have hobbies JUST TO ENJOY THE HOBBIES.

Many guys don't deliberately pick hobbies to overlap with girl chasing.

Playing with legos, building trainsets (even Tony Sopranos #2 or maybe #3 played with trains), origami, are hobbies.

You haters might consider a hobby OTHER than hating on women on the interwebs...
 

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I’ve had my share of one night stands. They get awkward after the 3rd time and the next day you’re like wtf was I thinking
I got the same feeling after I 1NS-ed a gal that I later learned was mentally retarded (only mildly, but still!) :eek::eek::eek:
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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