MatureDJ
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
article: Is an Open Marriage a Happier Marriage?
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
speed dawg
Master Don Juan
It probably is for one side of the marriage - the one with more options. At least for a while, until they find something better, then suddenly they'll want another monogamous relationship with the new person. So weird right.
People are damn dumb.
People are damn dumb.
btownbuck2012
Master Don Juan
Just an utterly pathetic commentary on the idiocy of the times we're living in.
actually if was a happier marriage they wouldn't divorce, and strange enough even people on that life style divorce too so.
also if you consider only sex is the way to have a happy life i'm pretty sure you have some kind of problem
also if you consider only sex is the way to have a happy life i'm pretty sure you have some kind of problem