"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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article: Is an Open Marriage a Happier Marriage?

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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It probably is for one side of the marriage - the one with more options. At least for a while, until they find something better, then suddenly they'll want another monogamous relationship with the new person. So weird right.

People are damn dumb.
 

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Just an utterly pathetic commentary on the idiocy of the times we're living in.
 

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actually if was a happier marriage they wouldn't divorce, and strange enough even people on that life style divorce too so.

also if you consider only sex is the way to have a happy life i'm pretty sure you have some kind of problem
 
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