"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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article: Is an Open Marriage a Happier Marriage?

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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It probably is for one side of the marriage - the one with more options. At least for a while, until they find something better, then suddenly they'll want another monogamous relationship with the new person. So weird right.

People are damn dumb.
 

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Just an utterly pathetic commentary on the idiocy of the times we're living in.
 

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actually if was a happier marriage they wouldn't divorce, and strange enough even people on that life style divorce too so.

also if you consider only sex is the way to have a happy life i'm pretty sure you have some kind of problem
 
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