“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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article: Instant Gratification – How Tinder Almost Ruined Dating for Millennials

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

BackInTheGame78

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Ah yes...sounds about right. All Tinder did was give people more options and choices to make. So because Millennials decided to make poor choices for themselves, they blame Tinder.

No, Tinder didn't ruin anything. They ruined it for themselves. They had choices to make and they made poor ones. But of course, what should we expect, nothing is ever their fault and it's always someone else or something else to blame for their faults or failures.
 

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It's difficult to say that Tinder ruined dating for Millennials. When the oldest Millennials (1982-1986) started dating between ~1998-2004 they were already walking into a difficult mating environment. Younger Millennials started dating as the smartphone and social media were getting big, dating websites became de-stigmatized, and later swipe apps came around.

The foundation for the mating environment getting worse was laid during the Sexual Revolution of the 1960s and second wave feminism of the 1960s and 1970s. Everything else stems from movements of those eras.

It is fair to say that Tinder, other swipe apps, and social media made things worse.
 

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Not just Tinder, but social media in general. I could write a doctoral thesis on the negative effects of social media on society which is why I dont use the crap.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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It’s not just millennials. Tons of old divorced women toting kids around that are on online dating looking for the “insta tingles” on first dates.
 

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These companies will slowly find ways to exploit our dopamine systems, that will be the major problem, right now people have a choice but as tech develops, they will grow in their ability to manipulate our choices, needs regulation.
 
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