"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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article: I’m a size 22 & love wearing tiny bikinis in heatwaves – trolls say I’m too fat & call me whale but I’m proud of my body

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https://www.thesun.co.uk/fabulous/19471685/size-22-trolled-wearing-bikini-fat-is-fabulous
The former customer service worker, 40, who weighs over 18st, says she's proud to be plus size, feeling her sexiest when wearing skimpy swimwear and mini skirts, which help her keep cool while looking hot.
Sadly, the abuse 5ft 5in Adele - who has a BMI of 45 which makes her 'clinically obese' - receives is constant, with critics branding her "disgusting" and a "whale".
BTW, 1 st (stone) = 14#, so she weights over 252#. :eek: :eek:

My opinion: She weighs twice what she should. :down:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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It's always the fatties with no chests in these articles...

It's straight up trolling of our gender.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Come on guys, go easy on her. She’s just a bit curvy.
 

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Positive body image, fat shaming and other woke terms continue to ring the cash registers of processed food manufacturing.
It’s big business and they are the ones behind it!
While the obese get brained washed accepting this is a normalcy when In fact it’s a sickness and a death sentence.
 

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While the obese get brained washed accepting this is a normalcy when In fact it’s a sickness and a death sentence.
At a bare minimum, that much extra weight if continued, guarantees multiple artificial knee and/or hip surgeries starting about age 50-55 on up …
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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It's always the fatties with no chests in these articles...

It's straight up trolling of our gender.
Yes, it's almost like a chick that is chunky is not so bad just so long as her teats are proportionally huge, but it's like WTF if she's fat and flat. :down: Of course, there is no bra size that could possibly make this chick attractive. :eek:
 

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Lmao...yes...her OLD profile says curvy for sure and she has all her pics with the downward angle to try and hide her fat hahaha...
Did you notice how her belly flab hangs over her T-bar bikini bottom, giving the impression that she's bottomless? :eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek:
 

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I haven’t fallen for it. If I see a disgusting fatbody then that person will be told to lose weight if they want to associate with me. Then I will bully them by making pig noises.
Gunnery Sergeant Hartman had other ways of bullying a "disgusting fatbody":

 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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How can you Westerners live with all these BS woke terms and cultures?

An obese woman is no problem to me until she shows up on a newspapers and says she's "proud of her curves"???

I mean WTF???

Few years back I saw you guys having a Calvin Klein advertising board that showed an obese black woman in sport lingeries. I mean WTF?

Being ugly and obese is one thing, being fat and obese AND glorifying being fat and obese is another.

You crazy Westerners are digging your own graves.
 

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No she isn't.

She says that to try and convince herself because she is unwilling to do anything about it. She has no discipline when it comes to diet. She has no discipline when it comes to an exercise routine. She basically wants to take no responsibility for the fact she is a fat slob, so she claims she "enjoys" it.

Trust me, nobody "wants" to be that way. They simply don't want to put any work into being anything different.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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