MatureDJ
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Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
article: Bikinis Make Men See Women as Objects
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Boilermaker
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oh yes.. that is it.. bikinis! they finally spotted it.
if it weren't for bikinis; we would NEVER, EVER see women as objects,
such nonsense...
if it weren't for bikinis; we would NEVER, EVER see women as objects,
such nonsense...
wait_out
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I feel let down that that was not an Onion article
Rollo Tomassi
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Sexy women being the operative term here.
A chubby girl in a bikini still makes the salami go south.
ermmmm.... I think you're totally missing the point. What's interesting to me is that naked (or mostly naked in this case) women lit up the same part of the brain as "tool use" does.Boilermaker said:
Kind of like I always say that boning a hot woman is like driving a Ferrari at 150mph. Interesting stuff... seems to say that the objectification of women is hard-wired into the male brain.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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no I didn't miss the point I was pointing out the irrelevance of bikinis in this context.Zarky said:
Bikini has nothing to do with the objectification. On the other hand, if you are to discover the fact that we see women as objects; you really need to get bikinis out of the picture - say, with a control group of naked women.
5string
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Oh come on. Women only wear bikinis because it's too warm outside to wear regular clothing. What other reason could there be?