"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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article: All That’s Left For Normal Men Are Rotten Women

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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He’s not wrong per se, but engaging in such pondering becomes Sartrean in nature. L’enfer c’est les autres. Hell is others(other people).

Ultimately, we can only control our own choices. The impetus for men as a whole is to stop rewarding and tolerating bad behavior and hold high standards.

After all if women who are 49’ers were ignored they’d have to change their tune.

Granted, there will still be men who are thirsty for said women so the key here is addressing your own personal standards.

If you are busting your butt to improve your self in all areas why wouldn’t you hold a woman to that standard? It still applies whether you are 6 months, 1 year, 5 years, 10 years into a relationship.

That’s what each man can control take care of yourself, be willing to walk, and refuse to tolerate/accept ****ty behavior.
Now this is good.

And it called taking the lead.

Focusing on urself - a man's full time job.

Women - a man's part time job.
 

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wait, i did read first half article and i completely agree, something i always believed and knew about.


also



wtf is that. i hope he dumbs this fat ho
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I can't even read the red pill blogs and sites anymore.. To negative.
Over and over again I see men who wake up to the reality of today's women, and then they slam into a wall with the words "road closed to quality women" spray painted on it. Then they give up on life and complain about the wall that's in their way instead of looking for solutions to get around that wall.

There are lots of articles out there that re-hash the truth about women over and over, but there are few that propose or even give a solution to the problem.

wtf is that. i hope he dumbs this fat ho
If that ho devotes her life to making him a happy man, then I'm all for keeping her. If she's got orbiters and makes feminized excuses for her weight, then he needs to dump her.
 

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I have recently been pondering this. Humans, as for any animal, are endowed with biological imperatives and the instincts & emotions that have evolved along with it. Earlier men figured out that because of humans' need to care for & raise the young, the female sexual imperative had to be tamed, which it was via the strong cultural more of marriage as pre-selected by the parents. This has obviously served to forward the symbiosis of man's biological imperative and society's development. However, femyninism has in large part destroyed this cultural symbiosis, and thus society will continue on as per this femynism but also the biological imperative. The most important imperative is that men seek to have sex, and when sex is not forthcoming they get belligerent, which is why we have the pillars of society spending their youth in destructive ways, men that can be seduced into thinking that killing thousands of people will result in "72 virgins", and Supreme Gentlemen who are spurned by women to go on murderous rampages. About the only good thing that society has been doing to ameliorate this is the explosion in internet p0rn, and the eventual development of sexbots.
theres one extreme branch of islam which i forgot the name that believes u get more points for certain things which u can exchange in heaven for virgins (actually, all muslim men believe it) but the extreme branch also thinks they will get a lot of points for killing people
 
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