MatureDJ
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
article: A week in the life of an open marriage
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
BetterCallSaul
Master Don Juan
You know, I was about to comment with my usual stuff on this about how the guy is a total cuck, and the woman is going to be a lifelong CC rider....but if you actually click the comments, almost all of them are from women defending traditional marriage. That's actually refreshing to see.
The Duke
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If it works for them great. However by having multiple partners all you do is dilute your relationships. She constantly mentions how she doesn't have enough time. Most people don't have enough time for one another, not to mention multiple partners. Seems very surface and lacking depth.
FwoGiZ
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vI'd be interested in real stats. As in how successful are traditional marriage compared to those. Cause traditional marriage fails at around 75-80% .. and I like to say the other 20-25% just haven't failed yet 
I dunno about you guys but I am not a gambler but feels like 20-25% chance to not get divorce raped seems like a very silly decision.
I personally went 10 yrs trying to do "like everybody else".. like my mom told me it was the right thing to do. Never worked longer than a year ish... I'd always "cheat" altho I truly loved them or I'd become beta, turning them off, being cheated on or just dumped. Ever since I gave up monogamy, I'd say my life has been WAY better... I don't remember last time we had an argument with my main.
So my gf gets banged by other dude but doesn't leave me? Well one could say that's validating up to a point.. but then I get to bang any chick I want on the side plus ALL (ok.. 80-90%) of her hot friends? Well **** who's the idiot?
I think the BEST part of such a relationship is when you start hearing or even seeing people giving each others sh1t for stuff that we can't even comprehend anymore... pure entertainment
I dunno about you guys but I am not a gambler but feels like 20-25% chance to not get divorce raped seems like a very silly decision.
I personally went 10 yrs trying to do "like everybody else".. like my mom told me it was the right thing to do. Never worked longer than a year ish... I'd always "cheat" altho I truly loved them or I'd become beta, turning them off, being cheated on or just dumped. Ever since I gave up monogamy, I'd say my life has been WAY better... I don't remember last time we had an argument with my main.
So my gf gets banged by other dude but doesn't leave me? Well one could say that's validating up to a point.. but then I get to bang any chick I want on the side plus ALL (ok.. 80-90%) of her hot friends? Well **** who's the idiot?
I think the BEST part of such a relationship is when you start hearing or even seeing people giving each others sh1t for stuff that we can't even comprehend anymore... pure entertainment
Masculinity
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If you're having secks with other people, why get married at all.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
FwoGiZ
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Even if you are not, why get married? Is there honestly a single guy on this planet that even come up with the idea to get married? Seems like 100% fem imperative thing to me
I am never getting married but it's just cause I'm not religious and legally wise, it's a very very poor decision to make as a guy.
I am never getting married but it's just cause I'm not religious and legally wise, it's a very very poor decision to make as a guy.