MatureDJ
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
article: A week in the life of an open marriage
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
BetterCallSaul
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You know, I was about to comment with my usual stuff on this about how the guy is a total cuck, and the woman is going to be a lifelong CC rider....but if you actually click the comments, almost all of them are from women defending traditional marriage. That's actually refreshing to see.
The Duke
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If it works for them great. However by having multiple partners all you do is dilute your relationships. She constantly mentions how she doesn't have enough time. Most people don't have enough time for one another, not to mention multiple partners. Seems very surface and lacking depth.
FwoGiZ
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vI'd be interested in real stats. As in how successful are traditional marriage compared to those. Cause traditional marriage fails at around 75-80% .. and I like to say the other 20-25% just haven't failed yet 
I dunno about you guys but I am not a gambler but feels like 20-25% chance to not get divorce raped seems like a very silly decision.
I personally went 10 yrs trying to do "like everybody else".. like my mom told me it was the right thing to do. Never worked longer than a year ish... I'd always "cheat" altho I truly loved them or I'd become beta, turning them off, being cheated on or just dumped. Ever since I gave up monogamy, I'd say my life has been WAY better... I don't remember last time we had an argument with my main.
So my gf gets banged by other dude but doesn't leave me? Well one could say that's validating up to a point.. but then I get to bang any chick I want on the side plus ALL (ok.. 80-90%) of her hot friends? Well **** who's the idiot?
I think the BEST part of such a relationship is when you start hearing or even seeing people giving each others sh1t for stuff that we can't even comprehend anymore... pure entertainment
I dunno about you guys but I am not a gambler but feels like 20-25% chance to not get divorce raped seems like a very silly decision.
I personally went 10 yrs trying to do "like everybody else".. like my mom told me it was the right thing to do. Never worked longer than a year ish... I'd always "cheat" altho I truly loved them or I'd become beta, turning them off, being cheated on or just dumped. Ever since I gave up monogamy, I'd say my life has been WAY better... I don't remember last time we had an argument with my main.
So my gf gets banged by other dude but doesn't leave me? Well one could say that's validating up to a point.. but then I get to bang any chick I want on the side plus ALL (ok.. 80-90%) of her hot friends? Well **** who's the idiot?
I think the BEST part of such a relationship is when you start hearing or even seeing people giving each others sh1t for stuff that we can't even comprehend anymore... pure entertainment
Masculinity
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If you're having secks with other people, why get married at all.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
FwoGiZ
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Even if you are not, why get married? Is there honestly a single guy on this planet that even come up with the idea to get married? Seems like 100% fem imperative thing to me
I am never getting married but it's just cause I'm not religious and legally wise, it's a very very poor decision to make as a guy.
I am never getting married but it's just cause I'm not religious and legally wise, it's a very very poor decision to make as a guy.