MatureDJ
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
article: A week in the life of an open marriage
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
BetterCallSaul
Master Don Juan
You know, I was about to comment with my usual stuff on this about how the guy is a total cuck, and the woman is going to be a lifelong CC rider....but if you actually click the comments, almost all of them are from women defending traditional marriage. That's actually refreshing to see.
The Duke
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If it works for them great. However by having multiple partners all you do is dilute your relationships. She constantly mentions how she doesn't have enough time. Most people don't have enough time for one another, not to mention multiple partners. Seems very surface and lacking depth.
FwoGiZ
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vI'd be interested in real stats. As in how successful are traditional marriage compared to those. Cause traditional marriage fails at around 75-80% .. and I like to say the other 20-25% just haven't failed yet 
I dunno about you guys but I am not a gambler but feels like 20-25% chance to not get divorce raped seems like a very silly decision.
I personally went 10 yrs trying to do "like everybody else".. like my mom told me it was the right thing to do. Never worked longer than a year ish... I'd always "cheat" altho I truly loved them or I'd become beta, turning them off, being cheated on or just dumped. Ever since I gave up monogamy, I'd say my life has been WAY better... I don't remember last time we had an argument with my main.
So my gf gets banged by other dude but doesn't leave me? Well one could say that's validating up to a point.. but then I get to bang any chick I want on the side plus ALL (ok.. 80-90%) of her hot friends? Well **** who's the idiot?
I think the BEST part of such a relationship is when you start hearing or even seeing people giving each others sh1t for stuff that we can't even comprehend anymore... pure entertainment
I dunno about you guys but I am not a gambler but feels like 20-25% chance to not get divorce raped seems like a very silly decision.
I personally went 10 yrs trying to do "like everybody else".. like my mom told me it was the right thing to do. Never worked longer than a year ish... I'd always "cheat" altho I truly loved them or I'd become beta, turning them off, being cheated on or just dumped. Ever since I gave up monogamy, I'd say my life has been WAY better... I don't remember last time we had an argument with my main.
So my gf gets banged by other dude but doesn't leave me? Well one could say that's validating up to a point.. but then I get to bang any chick I want on the side plus ALL (ok.. 80-90%) of her hot friends? Well **** who's the idiot?
I think the BEST part of such a relationship is when you start hearing or even seeing people giving each others sh1t for stuff that we can't even comprehend anymore... pure entertainment
Masculinity
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If you're having secks with other people, why get married at all.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
FwoGiZ
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Even if you are not, why get married? Is there honestly a single guy on this planet that even come up with the idea to get married? Seems like 100% fem imperative thing to me
I am never getting married but it's just cause I'm not religious and legally wise, it's a very very poor decision to make as a guy.
I am never getting married but it's just cause I'm not religious and legally wise, it's a very very poor decision to make as a guy.