The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.
Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.
Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.
I hope you don't completely buy that sh*t. Even if a woman does hit the wall, there's still a flood of guys who want her. Now contrast that to a guy who hit the wall. Not a lot of options there.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
But the Blackpill says the wall is cope.
Agree completely. I was being sarcastic.
some chemical changes happen in many during the 40s but before the wall. can result in sex drive higher than a young one. basically the testosterone percentage can end up higher as the other chems randomly change. also screws up there head.