"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Arranged Marriages Your Views Please

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How many of you DJ's have had pressure put on you when it comes to arranged marriages and settling down ?. I ask this question as I come from an asian background and have had some nightmare experiences. Though now things are alot different for me.

I was at a point in my life where I was led to believe that if a man didnt get married by the time he was 30 then he just would not have a life or get the chance to see his children grow up or he was homosexual. Believe or not a friend of the family rings me up now and again and indirectly asks me whether I am gay or I have a sexual problem because I havent settled down yet.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I'm an Indian.

And arranged marriage's are common here, I plan to get hitched when I'm in my early 30's, AFC's would covet an early arranged marriage because it gets them a source of booty without much hassle.

Marriage is the ball & chain anyway, once you get married there arent going to be any other women in your life, unless you're into infidellity/or divorce's

So have fun while you're single
 
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the amish people arrange marriages too.



i would never wanna marry someone my family arranged to give them a pig , a donkey and two acres of corn land to get rid of me .
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by penkitten
i would never wanna marry someone my family arranged to give them a pig , a donkey and two acres of corn land to get rid of me .
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I'd have given your mom some goats and maybe a chicken or something but luckily I got you for free.

:crackup: :whistle:
 
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i dont think they can charge you a chicken and a goat if you are trying to marry someone who was already married before .
 
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Originally posted by penkitten
i dont think they can charge you a chicken and a goat if you are trying to marry someone who was already married before .
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Maybe that's why I got you for free.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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It's their first fight (?)

... and not even married yet.

"You can't hurry love, oh you just have to wait..."
 
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I will never get married anyway. Im keeping it real like gene simmons.
 
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The only arranged marriage I could even concider would be to a hot foriegn chick looking for her visa that I set up personally.

Then again it's not in my culture to have arranged marriages. But I know I go against other significant things that are in my culture so i'm guessing I'd be opposed to arrange marriages if they were there too.

Ha, mail order brides... where did the world go so wrong?
 
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