"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Arranged Marriages Your Views Please

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How many of you DJ's have had pressure put on you when it comes to arranged marriages and settling down ?. I ask this question as I come from an asian background and have had some nightmare experiences. Though now things are alot different for me.

I was at a point in my life where I was led to believe that if a man didnt get married by the time he was 30 then he just would not have a life or get the chance to see his children grow up or he was homosexual. Believe or not a friend of the family rings me up now and again and indirectly asks me whether I am gay or I have a sexual problem because I havent settled down yet.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I'm an Indian.

And arranged marriage's are common here, I plan to get hitched when I'm in my early 30's, AFC's would covet an early arranged marriage because it gets them a source of booty without much hassle.

Marriage is the ball & chain anyway, once you get married there arent going to be any other women in your life, unless you're into infidellity/or divorce's

So have fun while you're single
 
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the amish people arrange marriages too.



i would never wanna marry someone my family arranged to give them a pig , a donkey and two acres of corn land to get rid of me .
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Giovanni Casanova

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Originally posted by penkitten
i would never wanna marry someone my family arranged to give them a pig , a donkey and two acres of corn land to get rid of me .
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I'd have given your mom some goats and maybe a chicken or something but luckily I got you for free.

:crackup: :whistle:
 
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i dont think they can charge you a chicken and a goat if you are trying to marry someone who was already married before .
 
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Originally posted by penkitten
i dont think they can charge you a chicken and a goat if you are trying to marry someone who was already married before .
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Maybe that's why I got you for free.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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It's their first fight (?)

... and not even married yet.

"You can't hurry love, oh you just have to wait..."
 
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I will never get married anyway. Im keeping it real like gene simmons.
 
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The only arranged marriage I could even concider would be to a hot foriegn chick looking for her visa that I set up personally.

Then again it's not in my culture to have arranged marriages. But I know I go against other significant things that are in my culture so i'm guessing I'd be opposed to arrange marriages if they were there too.

Ha, mail order brides... where did the world go so wrong?
 
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