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Arranged Marriages Your Views Please

englishcrap

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How many of you DJ's have had pressure put on you when it comes to arranged marriages and settling down ?. I ask this question as I come from an asian background and have had some nightmare experiences. Though now things are alot different for me.

I was at a point in my life where I was led to believe that if a man didnt get married by the time he was 30 then he just would not have a life or get the chance to see his children grow up or he was homosexual. Believe or not a friend of the family rings me up now and again and indirectly asks me whether I am gay or I have a sexual problem because I havent settled down yet.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

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SageOFAllenAge

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I'm an Indian.

And arranged marriage's are common here, I plan to get hitched when I'm in my early 30's, AFC's would covet an early arranged marriage because it gets them a source of booty without much hassle.

Marriage is the ball & chain anyway, once you get married there arent going to be any other women in your life, unless you're into infidellity/or divorce's

So have fun while you're single
 

penkitten

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the amish people arrange marriages too.



i would never wanna marry someone my family arranged to give them a pig , a donkey and two acres of corn land to get rid of me .
 

Giovanni Casanova

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Originally posted by penkitten
i would never wanna marry someone my family arranged to give them a pig , a donkey and two acres of corn land to get rid of me .
I'd have given your mom some goats and maybe a chicken or something but luckily I got you for free.

:crackup: :whistle:
 

penkitten

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i dont think they can charge you a chicken and a goat if you are trying to marry someone who was already married before .
 

Giovanni Casanova

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Originally posted by penkitten
i dont think they can charge you a chicken and a goat if you are trying to marry someone who was already married before .
Maybe that's why I got you for free.
 

Bonhomme

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It's their first fight (?)

... and not even married yet.

"You can't hurry love, oh you just have to wait..."
 

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I will never get married anyway. Im keeping it real like gene simmons.
 

PRMoon

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The only arranged marriage I could even concider would be to a hot foriegn chick looking for her visa that I set up personally.

Then again it's not in my culture to have arranged marriages. But I know I go against other significant things that are in my culture so i'm guessing I'd be opposed to arrange marriages if they were there too.

Ha, mail order brides... where did the world go so wrong?
 
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