"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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armpit hair

ilikebeef

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Heh, sorry for the gross topic.

Anyways, I'm 16 and have barely any armpit hair while most freshmen have an abundance.

I'm not concerned that this makes me less "manly", because that's not the case, I'm just wondering if another growth spurt is likely.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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strong like bull

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trust me bro, be careful what you wish for. since i was ~15 i had two full pits and hairy legs. lol, sometimes my own mom is afraid to hug me if im wearing a tank-top. scares her.

some guys get their growth spurts later than others. some guys simply arent as hairy as others. my advice to you? dont sweat it. make sure youre doing everything you can to -naturally- boost your testosterone levels. if you can do it safely, lift weights. engage in hard, competitive sports like basketball or boxing. live the life of a man, and your body will do the best it can to follow.
 

DJBen

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Meh. Thats a good thing. The smell of sweat sticks to armpit hair and makes you small musky, unless you occasionally trim it. Atleast, thats what I've found.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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ilikebeef

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I'm not complaining, just wondering if I could be in for some more growth as I'm 5'10-5'11 now and it'd be cool to be a tad taller.;)
 

Capt.Jack Sparrow

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Ohhh man, I think your so lucky.

Me, I shave mine. I hate the idea of getting sweaty/smelly pits cause of it.

So be considered lucky dude. But yea, another growth spurt is likely.
 
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