"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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armpit hair

ilikebeef

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Heh, sorry for the gross topic.

Anyways, I'm 16 and have barely any armpit hair while most freshmen have an abundance.

I'm not concerned that this makes me less "manly", because that's not the case, I'm just wondering if another growth spurt is likely.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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strong like bull

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trust me bro, be careful what you wish for. since i was ~15 i had two full pits and hairy legs. lol, sometimes my own mom is afraid to hug me if im wearing a tank-top. scares her.

some guys get their growth spurts later than others. some guys simply arent as hairy as others. my advice to you? dont sweat it. make sure youre doing everything you can to -naturally- boost your testosterone levels. if you can do it safely, lift weights. engage in hard, competitive sports like basketball or boxing. live the life of a man, and your body will do the best it can to follow.
 

DJBen

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Meh. Thats a good thing. The smell of sweat sticks to armpit hair and makes you small musky, unless you occasionally trim it. Atleast, thats what I've found.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ilikebeef

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I'm not complaining, just wondering if I could be in for some more growth as I'm 5'10-5'11 now and it'd be cool to be a tad taller.;)
 

Capt.Jack Sparrow

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Ohhh man, I think your so lucky.

Me, I shave mine. I hate the idea of getting sweaty/smelly pits cause of it.

So be considered lucky dude. But yea, another growth spurt is likely.
 
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