"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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armpit hair

ilikebeef

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Heh, sorry for the gross topic.

Anyways, I'm 16 and have barely any armpit hair while most freshmen have an abundance.

I'm not concerned that this makes me less "manly", because that's not the case, I'm just wondering if another growth spurt is likely.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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strong like bull

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trust me bro, be careful what you wish for. since i was ~15 i had two full pits and hairy legs. lol, sometimes my own mom is afraid to hug me if im wearing a tank-top. scares her.

some guys get their growth spurts later than others. some guys simply arent as hairy as others. my advice to you? dont sweat it. make sure youre doing everything you can to -naturally- boost your testosterone levels. if you can do it safely, lift weights. engage in hard, competitive sports like basketball or boxing. live the life of a man, and your body will do the best it can to follow.
 

DJBen

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Meh. Thats a good thing. The smell of sweat sticks to armpit hair and makes you small musky, unless you occasionally trim it. Atleast, thats what I've found.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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ilikebeef

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I'm not complaining, just wondering if I could be in for some more growth as I'm 5'10-5'11 now and it'd be cool to be a tad taller.;)
 

Capt.Jack Sparrow

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Ohhh man, I think your so lucky.

Me, I shave mine. I hate the idea of getting sweaty/smelly pits cause of it.

So be considered lucky dude. But yea, another growth spurt is likely.
 
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