"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Arizona House Parties

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Hey Guys,

I have run into a serious roadblock with my GF. She loves to go out and party & I never really partied all that much in HS. I dont let her go to parties by herself, cause she gets to wild & crazy for my taste (if you get my hint), so I was just really wondering if any of you guys living in AZ, know any good house parties or college parties I could take her too. I will be attending ASU in the fall so I just want to keep an eye on her while having a good time.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by Paid, Laid & Made
Hey Guys,

so I was just really wondering if any of you guys living in AZ, know any good house parties or college parties I could take her too. I will be attending ASU in the fall so I just want to keep an eye on her while having a good time.
You're kidding right?

Trust me dude. She's not going to be your g/f much longer.... not while you're going the ASU... and to be honest, there are too many hotties there to be tied down right away...

anticipates crazkid moving this to "anything else"
 

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LOL. I know, I am still in denial. LET THE PARTY START!
 

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I dunno how you could tie yourself down during college... shyt, back in school, you walk down the halls and there's no point in checking out the a$$ as you walk by, because there's just going to be another hottie approaching.

I made it a point to, each day, meet at least one new person. It showed because people were always commenting on "how can you always be with a new woman everyday?" You'd be amazed at how much of a boost hearing such things give you.

That and "You can't turn a ho into a housewife." so don't try.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I know about the hotties, my question is, how do I find about the parties for a hookup?
 

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how do I find about the parties for a hookup?
Now we're talking.

The best way to find out about the parties is to be the social butterfly. Go out and every day make it your mission to meet and have a conversation with at least 1 new person (or group). Things will start slow, but soon if you are even a little smooth you will make friends with at least 1 person or group per week.... and it's from these people that you will find out about all the house parties and everything.
 

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the parties are easy...
the houses between university and mill are full of parties... just walk/drive around and look for cars... the village and commons also have tons of parties all the time...

seriously, i don't forsee you having trouble finding where the fun is...
 

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Excellent. Mercenary are you going to ASU? Thanks for the advice Mill and University are solid bets.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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