"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Arguing with women - how the £$!" do you win??

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Why do you want to win an argument with a women?
Does it matter if she thinks you're right (and a freaky jackass who asks questions about winning an argument with a women on an internet forum to some random peeps)? Or might it be better to communicate like: "Well if you're not convinced by now then I'll let you win this one even though I know I'm right and because you are just enjoying it when I allow this behaviour and just going to keep talking till you get your way".
The sooner you 'let her win' the more you gain value in her eyes. Why?
If you let her win soon then it shows that you just don't care about winning the argument and you're not in for a bull**** discussion.
If you on the other hand keep trying, keep trying and keep tring to win the argument and eventually also give in (and get frustrated about it) then she'll think you're weak.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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