"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Arguing with women - how the £$!" do you win??

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Why do you want to win an argument with a women?
Does it matter if she thinks you're right (and a freaky jackass who asks questions about winning an argument with a women on an internet forum to some random peeps)? Or might it be better to communicate like: "Well if you're not convinced by now then I'll let you win this one even though I know I'm right and because you are just enjoying it when I allow this behaviour and just going to keep talking till you get your way".
The sooner you 'let her win' the more you gain value in her eyes. Why?
If you let her win soon then it shows that you just don't care about winning the argument and you're not in for a bull**** discussion.
If you on the other hand keep trying, keep trying and keep tring to win the argument and eventually also give in (and get frustrated about it) then she'll think you're weak.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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