"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Arg... oneitis...

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I ****ing hate this. I get interested in this one girl, and one night I even start losing sleep over it. That night I decide that I HAVE to get her number/get shot down and get this thing overwith.
Then, for whatever reason, she's never approachable for several days.
And then, the one chance I get, I don't work up the courage to even get the number.

Now I know we're supposed to always go find 10 better chicks or do something else to keep our mind off a chick when we feel that oneitis developping, but I can tell she's into me too. It's way too obvious. That's why I decided to get her number, hang out with, and see what happens so that I can get over it. Is that the wrong thing to do? Should you give up on a girl if you have oneitis for her, even if she's definately liking you too?

Anyway, the jist of what I'm saying is this: do I try one more time for the digits, hang out with her, etc etc, and play it out? Or is that not worth it at this point? I just want the whole thing out of my ****ing head so I can focus on more important stuff.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Chillisauce

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Only way i found to get over my oneitis was to cut her off completely for a few months and sleep with as many women as i could. Even if you manage to screw your oneitis its just another type of hell.
 

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Originally posted by handle
I ****ing hate this. I get interested in this one girl, and one night I even start losing sleep over it. That night I decide that I HAVE to get her number/get shot down and get this thing overwith.
Then, for whatever reason, she's never approachable for several days.
And then, the one chance I get, I don't work up the courage to even get the number.

Now I know we're supposed to always go find 10 better chicks or do something else to keep our mind off a chick when we feel that oneitis developping, but I can tell she's into me too. It's way too obvious. That's why I decided to get her number, hang out with, and see what happens so that I can get over it. Is that the wrong thing to do? Should you give up on a girl if you have oneitis for her, even if she's definately liking you too?

Anyway, the jist of what I'm saying is this: do I try one more time for the digits, hang out with her, etc etc, and play it out? Or is that not worth it at this point? I just want the whole thing out of my ****ing head so I can focus on more important stuff.

Nothing is a "for sure thing" with women buddy!!



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Hunterchilla

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if u have one-itis with a girl, and she likes you also, then dont mess it up your lucky.
 
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