"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Arg... oneitis...

handle

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I ****ing hate this. I get interested in this one girl, and one night I even start losing sleep over it. That night I decide that I HAVE to get her number/get shot down and get this thing overwith.
Then, for whatever reason, she's never approachable for several days.
And then, the one chance I get, I don't work up the courage to even get the number.

Now I know we're supposed to always go find 10 better chicks or do something else to keep our mind off a chick when we feel that oneitis developping, but I can tell she's into me too. It's way too obvious. That's why I decided to get her number, hang out with, and see what happens so that I can get over it. Is that the wrong thing to do? Should you give up on a girl if you have oneitis for her, even if she's definately liking you too?

Anyway, the jist of what I'm saying is this: do I try one more time for the digits, hang out with her, etc etc, and play it out? Or is that not worth it at this point? I just want the whole thing out of my ****ing head so I can focus on more important stuff.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Chillisauce

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Only way i found to get over my oneitis was to cut her off completely for a few months and sleep with as many women as i could. Even if you manage to screw your oneitis its just another type of hell.
 

Pimp-sicle

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Originally posted by handle
I ****ing hate this. I get interested in this one girl, and one night I even start losing sleep over it. That night I decide that I HAVE to get her number/get shot down and get this thing overwith.
Then, for whatever reason, she's never approachable for several days.
And then, the one chance I get, I don't work up the courage to even get the number.

Now I know we're supposed to always go find 10 better chicks or do something else to keep our mind off a chick when we feel that oneitis developping, but I can tell she's into me too. It's way too obvious. That's why I decided to get her number, hang out with, and see what happens so that I can get over it. Is that the wrong thing to do? Should you give up on a girl if you have oneitis for her, even if she's definately liking you too?

Anyway, the jist of what I'm saying is this: do I try one more time for the digits, hang out with her, etc etc, and play it out? Or is that not worth it at this point? I just want the whole thing out of my ****ing head so I can focus on more important stuff.

Nothing is a "for sure thing" with women buddy!!



PIMP
 

Hunterchilla

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if u have one-itis with a girl, and she likes you also, then dont mess it up your lucky.
 
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