"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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"Are you trying to seduce me?"

Sofomore

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Replies to "Are you trying to seduce me?"

I was thinking about this situation earlier today. I thought it would be cool if we all come together and give our opinions on this situation. Being called out as a "player" can definitely hurt your image and lower your value (note: doesn't apply in some cases).

I will start:

"Give me three reasons why I should bother seducing you."

-Sh*t test disarmed
-Slight neg
-You are now qualifying her
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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TheMale

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i probably would answer :
'hum ... yeah !'
or maybe something that would make her seems stupid like : 'no i just riding on my bicycle' ;p
 
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Sofomore said:
Replies to "Are you trying to seduce me?"

I was thinking about this situation earlier today. I thought it would be cool if we all come together and give our opinions on this situation. Being called out as a "player" can definitely hurt your image and lower your value (note: doesn't apply in some cases).

I will start:

"Give me three reasons why I should bother seducing you."

-Sh*t test disarmed
-Slight neg
-You are now qualifying her
I'd be more like "If you ask THAT question I guess I am and it's working. ARE YOU READY TO GO?"

The best PUA I ever learned from (PonyTailDude from my book) said that this is the best OPENER ever, because it appears to outsiders like you know her, and you're asking her to isolate directly out of the venue with her, with her reputation intact.
 

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Sofomore said:
Replies to "Are you trying to seduce me?"

I was thinking about this situation earlier today. I thought it would be cool if we all come together and give our opinions on this situation. Being called out as a "player" can definitely hurt your image and lower your value (note: doesn't apply in some cases).

I will start:

"Give me three reasons why I should bother seducing you."

-Sh*t test disarmed
-Slight neg
-You are now qualifying her
I like it. I like it a lot. Not everyone can pull it off though because it's a very strong turnaround. That's where the sly grin is essential. Excellent post and a worthy subject for discussion.
 

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