"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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"Are you trying to seduce me?"

Sofomore

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I was thinking about this situation earlier today. I thought it would be cool if we all come together and give our opinions on this situation. Being called out as a "player" can definitely hurt your image and lower your value (note: doesn't apply in some cases).

I will start:

"Give me three reasons why I should bother seducing you."

-Sh*t test disarmed
-Slight neg
-You are now qualifying her
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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TheMale

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i probably would answer :
'hum ... yeah !'
or maybe something that would make her seems stupid like : 'no i just riding on my bicycle' ;p
 
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Sofomore said:
Replies to "Are you trying to seduce me?"

I was thinking about this situation earlier today. I thought it would be cool if we all come together and give our opinions on this situation. Being called out as a "player" can definitely hurt your image and lower your value (note: doesn't apply in some cases).

I will start:

"Give me three reasons why I should bother seducing you."

-Sh*t test disarmed
-Slight neg
-You are now qualifying her
I'd be more like "If you ask THAT question I guess I am and it's working. ARE YOU READY TO GO?"

The best PUA I ever learned from (PonyTailDude from my book) said that this is the best OPENER ever, because it appears to outsiders like you know her, and you're asking her to isolate directly out of the venue with her, with her reputation intact.
 

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Sofomore said:
Replies to "Are you trying to seduce me?"

I was thinking about this situation earlier today. I thought it would be cool if we all come together and give our opinions on this situation. Being called out as a "player" can definitely hurt your image and lower your value (note: doesn't apply in some cases).

I will start:

"Give me three reasons why I should bother seducing you."

-Sh*t test disarmed
-Slight neg
-You are now qualifying her
I like it. I like it a lot. Not everyone can pull it off though because it's a very strong turnaround. That's where the sly grin is essential. Excellent post and a worthy subject for discussion.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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