"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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"Are you trying to seduce me?"

Sofomore

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I was thinking about this situation earlier today. I thought it would be cool if we all come together and give our opinions on this situation. Being called out as a "player" can definitely hurt your image and lower your value (note: doesn't apply in some cases).

I will start:

"Give me three reasons why I should bother seducing you."

-Sh*t test disarmed
-Slight neg
-You are now qualifying her
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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i probably would answer :
'hum ... yeah !'
or maybe something that would make her seems stupid like : 'no i just riding on my bicycle' ;p
 
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Sofomore said:
Replies to "Are you trying to seduce me?"

I was thinking about this situation earlier today. I thought it would be cool if we all come together and give our opinions on this situation. Being called out as a "player" can definitely hurt your image and lower your value (note: doesn't apply in some cases).

I will start:

"Give me three reasons why I should bother seducing you."

-Sh*t test disarmed
-Slight neg
-You are now qualifying her
I'd be more like "If you ask THAT question I guess I am and it's working. ARE YOU READY TO GO?"

The best PUA I ever learned from (PonyTailDude from my book) said that this is the best OPENER ever, because it appears to outsiders like you know her, and you're asking her to isolate directly out of the venue with her, with her reputation intact.
 

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Sofomore said:
Replies to "Are you trying to seduce me?"

I was thinking about this situation earlier today. I thought it would be cool if we all come together and give our opinions on this situation. Being called out as a "player" can definitely hurt your image and lower your value (note: doesn't apply in some cases).

I will start:

"Give me three reasons why I should bother seducing you."

-Sh*t test disarmed
-Slight neg
-You are now qualifying her
I like it. I like it a lot. Not everyone can pull it off though because it's a very strong turnaround. That's where the sly grin is essential. Excellent post and a worthy subject for discussion.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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