"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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"Are you trying to seduce me?"

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I was thinking about this situation earlier today. I thought it would be cool if we all come together and give our opinions on this situation. Being called out as a "player" can definitely hurt your image and lower your value (note: doesn't apply in some cases).

I will start:

"Give me three reasons why I should bother seducing you."

-Sh*t test disarmed
-Slight neg
-You are now qualifying her
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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i probably would answer :
'hum ... yeah !'
or maybe something that would make her seems stupid like : 'no i just riding on my bicycle' ;p
 
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Sofomore said:
Replies to "Are you trying to seduce me?"

I was thinking about this situation earlier today. I thought it would be cool if we all come together and give our opinions on this situation. Being called out as a "player" can definitely hurt your image and lower your value (note: doesn't apply in some cases).

I will start:

"Give me three reasons why I should bother seducing you."

-Sh*t test disarmed
-Slight neg
-You are now qualifying her
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I'd be more like "If you ask THAT question I guess I am and it's working. ARE YOU READY TO GO?"

The best PUA I ever learned from (PonyTailDude from my book) said that this is the best OPENER ever, because it appears to outsiders like you know her, and you're asking her to isolate directly out of the venue with her, with her reputation intact.
 
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Sofomore said:
Replies to "Are you trying to seduce me?"

I was thinking about this situation earlier today. I thought it would be cool if we all come together and give our opinions on this situation. Being called out as a "player" can definitely hurt your image and lower your value (note: doesn't apply in some cases).

I will start:

"Give me three reasons why I should bother seducing you."

-Sh*t test disarmed
-Slight neg
-You are now qualifying her
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I like it. I like it a lot. Not everyone can pull it off though because it's a very strong turnaround. That's where the sly grin is essential. Excellent post and a worthy subject for discussion.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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