"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Are You the Jealous Type?

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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King Tuz

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That argument go can either way.

Here is an example of what to do when presented with a situation, where you can either be jealous or confident and firm.


Should a girlfriend dance with other guys? if so, what limits?: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=83959

Read Lost In Translation's Replies. He puts it Very Well!
 

flippinfreak

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blue, I know so many girls who love it when I get (fake) jealous around them

Do girls enjoy the feeling of that evil grin?
 

speedo_meme

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blueangel83 said:
"Smile when she says she's going to have lunch with her old boyfriend"

GET OUTTA HERE!

ACTUALLY, most women love the jealous types.
Going to lunch with an ex is grounds for her to get dumped. Even if she just asks me, I will tell her to hit the road.

As for your second quote "most women love the jealous types.", you're a fukking idiot.

Blueangel I thought I told you this forum is better without you...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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flippinfreak

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lol

speed, she's right though...

You DO know that, right?
 

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blueangel83 said:
...ACTUALLY, most women love the jealous types.
You must mean some other because I have never heard any woman say that she's looking for a jealous man.
 

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I dont know... my girlfriend likes to tell me things while drunk that she wouldnt tell me normally.

some guy was hitting on her in this club. she could tell I was getting mad, so she asked me and I told her it wasnt a big deal and laughed.

later that night, she asked me again, and I told her it wasnt a big deal, I just thought that guy was a douchebag for hitting on her with me standing right there, and that yeah I did get a little mad (I was drunk too, DJ game points -10!!!) and she said she was glad that I did, because it made her feel like I actually cared about her. goes either way.
 

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Enjin 7 said:
because it made her feel like I actually cared about her
Yeah, that's what the girls say to me as well...

of course the ****s are going to say a girl only means what she does, and not what she says, ******** blah blah blah, feelings not logic blah blah blah...

Only when the jealousy is for a respectable reason should it be used. It shouldn't be used when she's having playful fun, or is doing something innocent.
 
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