"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Are You the Jealous Type?

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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King Tuz

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That argument go can either way.

Here is an example of what to do when presented with a situation, where you can either be jealous or confident and firm.


Should a girlfriend dance with other guys? if so, what limits?: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=83959

Read Lost In Translation's Replies. He puts it Very Well!
 

flippinfreak

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blue, I know so many girls who love it when I get (fake) jealous around them

Do girls enjoy the feeling of that evil grin?
 

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blueangel83 said:
"Smile when she says she's going to have lunch with her old boyfriend"

GET OUTTA HERE!

ACTUALLY, most women love the jealous types.
Going to lunch with an ex is grounds for her to get dumped. Even if she just asks me, I will tell her to hit the road.

As for your second quote "most women love the jealous types.", you're a fukking idiot.

Blueangel I thought I told you this forum is better without you...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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flippinfreak

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lol

speed, she's right though...

You DO know that, right?
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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blueangel83 said:
...ACTUALLY, most women love the jealous types.
You must mean some other because I have never heard any woman say that she's looking for a jealous man.
 

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I dont know... my girlfriend likes to tell me things while drunk that she wouldnt tell me normally.

some guy was hitting on her in this club. she could tell I was getting mad, so she asked me and I told her it wasnt a big deal and laughed.

later that night, she asked me again, and I told her it wasnt a big deal, I just thought that guy was a douchebag for hitting on her with me standing right there, and that yeah I did get a little mad (I was drunk too, DJ game points -10!!!) and she said she was glad that I did, because it made her feel like I actually cared about her. goes either way.
 

flippinfreak

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Enjin 7 said:
because it made her feel like I actually cared about her
Yeah, that's what the girls say to me as well...

of course the ****s are going to say a girl only means what she does, and not what she says, ******** blah blah blah, feelings not logic blah blah blah...

Only when the jealousy is for a respectable reason should it be used. It shouldn't be used when she's having playful fun, or is doing something innocent.
 
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