"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Are You the Jealous Type?
- Thread starter King Tuz
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
That argument go can either way.
Here is an example of what to do when presented with a situation, where you can either be jealous or confident and firm.
Should a girlfriend dance with other guys? if so, what limits?: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=83959
Read Lost In Translation's Replies. He puts it Very Well!
Here is an example of what to do when presented with a situation, where you can either be jealous or confident and firm.
Should a girlfriend dance with other guys? if so, what limits?: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=83959
Read Lost In Translation's Replies. He puts it Very Well!
blueangel83
Senior Don Juan
"Smile when she says she's going to have lunch with her old boyfriend"
GET OUTTA HERE!
ACTUALLY, most women love the jealous types.
GET OUTTA HERE!
ACTUALLY, most women love the jealous types.
flippinfreak
Master Don Juan
blue, I know so many girls who love it when I get (fake) jealous around them
Do girls enjoy the feeling of that evil grin?
Do girls enjoy the feeling of that evil grin?
speedo_meme
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Going to lunch with an ex is grounds for her to get dumped. Even if she just asks me, I will tell her to hit the road.blueangel83 said:"Smile when she says she's going to have lunch with her old boyfriend"
GET OUTTA HERE!
ACTUALLY, most women love the jealous types.
As for your second quote "most women love the jealous types.", you're a fukking idiot.
Blueangel I thought I told you this forum is better without you...
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
flippinfreak
Master Don Juan
lol
speed, she's right though...
You DO know that, right?
speed, she's right though...
You DO know that, right?
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
You must mean some other because I have never heard any woman say that she's looking for a jealous man.blueangel83 said:...ACTUALLY, most women love the jealous types.
I dont know... my girlfriend likes to tell me things while drunk that she wouldnt tell me normally.
some guy was hitting on her in this club. she could tell I was getting mad, so she asked me and I told her it wasnt a big deal and laughed.
later that night, she asked me again, and I told her it wasnt a big deal, I just thought that guy was a douchebag for hitting on her with me standing right there, and that yeah I did get a little mad (I was drunk too, DJ game points -10!!!) and she said she was glad that I did, because it made her feel like I actually cared about her. goes either way.
some guy was hitting on her in this club. she could tell I was getting mad, so she asked me and I told her it wasnt a big deal and laughed.
later that night, she asked me again, and I told her it wasnt a big deal, I just thought that guy was a douchebag for hitting on her with me standing right there, and that yeah I did get a little mad (I was drunk too, DJ game points -10!!!) and she said she was glad that I did, because it made her feel like I actually cared about her. goes either way.
flippinfreak
Master Don Juan
Yeah, that's what the girls say to me as well...Enjin 7 said:because it made her feel like I actually cared about her
of course the ****s are going to say a girl only means what she does, and not what she says, ******** blah blah blah, feelings not logic blah blah blah...
Only when the jealousy is for a respectable reason should it be used. It shouldn't be used when she's having playful fun, or is doing something innocent.