"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"Are you stalking me?" WTF!

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Don't utter another word to her other than the cursory hello if you cross her path. Stop going out of your way for her.

Are you stalking me?, it's just girltalk for leave me alone.
She knows you're not stalking her but that is feminine subtlety at play.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The Logical Player said:
You are, as a player-in-the-making NOT supposed to "really like" some girl until you have had sex with her a few times.
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BS... you can really like someone whenever you feel like it, you just shouldn't become too emotionally involved.
 
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Emotion is not right or wrong, it just is. What you do about it is paramount.

I tend to think a lot of these posts the person is already too late, and the best thing they can do is learn from next time.

Also, some of the C+F stuff, it seems to come off pretty harsh to me. Is that overdoing it or how C+F should be played out? Examples:

I only stalk pretty girls.
I thought trophy wives are hot.

We haven't even had sex yet and you're already talking about marriage? (OR) Fine, lets hitch a ride to Vegas after school.
Those seemed to be I guess less abrasive. Is that good or bad?
 
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