"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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"Are you stalking me?" WTF!

insidious

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Don't utter another word to her other than the cursory hello if you cross her path. Stop going out of your way for her.

Are you stalking me?, it's just girltalk for leave me alone.
She knows you're not stalking her but that is feminine subtlety at play.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Kal0051

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The Logical Player said:
You are, as a player-in-the-making NOT supposed to "really like" some girl until you have had sex with her a few times.
BS... you can really like someone whenever you feel like it, you just shouldn't become too emotionally involved.
 

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Emotion is not right or wrong, it just is. What you do about it is paramount.

I tend to think a lot of these posts the person is already too late, and the best thing they can do is learn from next time.

Also, some of the C+F stuff, it seems to come off pretty harsh to me. Is that overdoing it or how C+F should be played out? Examples:

I only stalk pretty girls.
I thought trophy wives are hot.

We haven't even had sex yet and you're already talking about marriage? (OR) Fine, lets hitch a ride to Vegas after school.
Those seemed to be I guess less abrasive. Is that good or bad?
 
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