"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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"Are you stalking me?" WTF!

insidious

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Don't utter another word to her other than the cursory hello if you cross her path. Stop going out of your way for her.

Are you stalking me?, it's just girltalk for leave me alone.
She knows you're not stalking her but that is feminine subtlety at play.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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The Logical Player said:
You are, as a player-in-the-making NOT supposed to "really like" some girl until you have had sex with her a few times.
BS... you can really like someone whenever you feel like it, you just shouldn't become too emotionally involved.
 

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Emotion is not right or wrong, it just is. What you do about it is paramount.

I tend to think a lot of these posts the person is already too late, and the best thing they can do is learn from next time.

Also, some of the C+F stuff, it seems to come off pretty harsh to me. Is that overdoing it or how C+F should be played out? Examples:

I only stalk pretty girls.
I thought trophy wives are hot.

We haven't even had sex yet and you're already talking about marriage? (OR) Fine, lets hitch a ride to Vegas after school.
Those seemed to be I guess less abrasive. Is that good or bad?
 
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