"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Are you paying for your AFC past?
- Thread starter Desdinova
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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Dude, you have no idea. I tried that, and they deny what they've done. They end up lying to my face and painting themselves as upstanding people who would NEVER do such things! I'm completely blown away at how these people can deliberately lie to my face about things that have happened. Then it just escelates from there.
Sorry man, but I'm not going to stoop to their level and lie to them.
Yeah, no 5hit - take my own advice. "If a person is subtracting from your happiness, then it's time to eliminate them from your life." It's kinda kinda sad how I've tried to develop a good relationship with them, and it never works. It's time to quit beating my head against the wall.
I had, what you would call a “memorandum of understanding” with my parents. It quite literally was a set of rules I went by that kept them at arm’s length away, and not in my business.
My mom was just a flat out bad person. You don’t love people like that you just make arrangements to “handle” their behaviour.
I was quite patronizing and condescending to them both and yes, to my mom, I lied and said “I love you”, but, it was part of the arrangement to keep the peace. Who the fvck says you have to tell them the truth all the time?
Diplomacy involves the periodic partaking of sh*t and enjoying it as a delicacy for all to see.
Some of my old friends envy me. But they know who is boss now. WTF we're they going to do about it?
Some are too proud to acknowledge my succes or listen to the advice I give them, too bad for them.
Others do (the less succesfull ones) and they even got succes out of it, then screwed it up by getting waaaaay to excited and turned into AFC mode.
I think it's hilarious. I tell them: Take my advice.
Then they refuse, and crash and burn after they kiss closed a girl one time. :crackup:
I agree that a lot of people try to sabotage you, especially relatives.
I just see those events as tests and challenges, so I can conquer them and end up laughing at how pathetic those people (relatives) are afterwards.
I cut off those people from influencing me. You really get to see who your real friends are.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.