"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Are You Man Enough To Use The Direct Method?

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ExcelNPrevail

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I did this a long time ago only once, and now that I looked back at it it did work. I was just too much of a bit(h back then though...lol. I've only done situational openers since then. I guess I'll try direct again. :up:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What an eye opener... I didn't realize that for the past year, that most of the girls I dated or hooked up with, was the result of a direct approach.
 
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While the direct approach is a great way to meet women, the main underlying theme to it is confidence. Confidence is the most crucial part of picking up women. Know what you want, and go and get it. No confidence=no women.
 
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Francisco d'Anconia

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mcpwn said:
...example: people with extreme confidence (dictators, religious leaders..etcc) get what they want and peopel follow them
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Don't they just use force and fear?
 
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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Don't they just use force and fear?
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it takes confidence and guts to get up on a stage and say hypocrital things and expect all things to go right
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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mcpwn said:
it takes confidence and guts to get up on a stage and say hypocrital things and expect all things to go right
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And just how much confidence or guts does it take when you're preaching to people who feel that they need to be told what to do?
 
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