"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Are You Man Enough To Use The Direct Method?

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ExcelNPrevail

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I did this a long time ago only once, and now that I looked back at it it did work. I was just too much of a bit(h back then though...lol. I've only done situational openers since then. I guess I'll try direct again. :up:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What an eye opener... I didn't realize that for the past year, that most of the girls I dated or hooked up with, was the result of a direct approach.
 
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While the direct approach is a great way to meet women, the main underlying theme to it is confidence. Confidence is the most crucial part of picking up women. Know what you want, and go and get it. No confidence=no women.
 
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Francisco d'Anconia

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mcpwn said:
...example: people with extreme confidence (dictators, religious leaders..etcc) get what they want and peopel follow them
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Don't they just use force and fear?
 
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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Don't they just use force and fear?
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it takes confidence and guts to get up on a stage and say hypocrital things and expect all things to go right
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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mcpwn said:
it takes confidence and guts to get up on a stage and say hypocrital things and expect all things to go right
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And just how much confidence or guts does it take when you're preaching to people who feel that they need to be told what to do?
 
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