"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Are you happy? test here.

GREAT WHITE SHARK

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a little test you can make to know if you are happy with your life.

If you had all the money you need, what would you do?

If you answer:

Well, I would change everything around here! Get a new X, do ZYX, go to WXZ, start this and that...

obviously you are not happy with things around your life.

if you answer:
Well, I would get a new car... but would continue to do the same things I am doing.

Because You like what you do.

Anothe good question is:

If you could do anything what would you do??

This a very powerful question. Can use both to build another life or to be thankfull for the one you have.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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a test to know if you are very happy at this moment:

Did you got laid last night?

Aaaaah, if the answer is yes you got a very big smile at this moment. If it's no, just think about the last time and you'll be pretty happy too.

Good stuff btw shark, I asked the girl next too me if she would give me a BJ if I had all the money in the world but she wouldn't cooperate. A DJ'gotta try.
 

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How is wanting to get things, do things, and go places a sign of unhappiness?

If I woke up one day and felt compelled to act, to "carpe diem", I would call it a major improvement and thank God that it finally happened.

I think you've got it backwards, not wanting to get, do, and go (apathy, avolition, avoidance, etc.) is the sign that something is wrong.

According to your questions, I would have to conclude that I'm perfectly happy with my mediocre and empty life that's heading nowhere.
Sounds like a flaw in your logic to me.
 

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This is a dumb test. I know if I had all the money I need. I'd invest it while at the same time get material goods or use whatever to improve myself physically and academically. I find happiness in trying to be the smartest and strongest I can be.

Call me a nerd, but I'd be willing to throw lots of cash if I were to get into a great school with great academic environment. Rather than settling for a "State University."

Second primary goal is to invest in my own private gym with a good personal trainer that can help me improve my physique and eat better too.

The girls? My brothers, life is good and I am the prize - they'd be chasing me.

Since I'll never get the above, I'll have to emulate it and do some chasing..
 

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Originally posted by DeathDealer
The girls? My brothers, life is good and I am the prize - they'd be chasing me.

Since I'll never get the above, I'll have to emulate it and do some chasing..
Dude seriously, that is terrible. There are 2 things money cannot buy and those are Confi and dence; the two things you need more than anything else.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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this test sux. A lot of the things that would make me happy involve needing more money. So does that make me unhappy right now ? Uh.......no !
 
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