"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Are you happy? test here.

GREAT WHITE SHARK

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a little test you can make to know if you are happy with your life.

If you had all the money you need, what would you do?

If you answer:

Well, I would change everything around here! Get a new X, do ZYX, go to WXZ, start this and that...

obviously you are not happy with things around your life.

if you answer:
Well, I would get a new car... but would continue to do the same things I am doing.

Because You like what you do.

Anothe good question is:

If you could do anything what would you do??

This a very powerful question. Can use both to build another life or to be thankfull for the one you have.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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a test to know if you are very happy at this moment:

Did you got laid last night?

Aaaaah, if the answer is yes you got a very big smile at this moment. If it's no, just think about the last time and you'll be pretty happy too.

Good stuff btw shark, I asked the girl next too me if she would give me a BJ if I had all the money in the world but she wouldn't cooperate. A DJ'gotta try.
 

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How is wanting to get things, do things, and go places a sign of unhappiness?

If I woke up one day and felt compelled to act, to "carpe diem", I would call it a major improvement and thank God that it finally happened.

I think you've got it backwards, not wanting to get, do, and go (apathy, avolition, avoidance, etc.) is the sign that something is wrong.

According to your questions, I would have to conclude that I'm perfectly happy with my mediocre and empty life that's heading nowhere.
Sounds like a flaw in your logic to me.
 

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This is a dumb test. I know if I had all the money I need. I'd invest it while at the same time get material goods or use whatever to improve myself physically and academically. I find happiness in trying to be the smartest and strongest I can be.

Call me a nerd, but I'd be willing to throw lots of cash if I were to get into a great school with great academic environment. Rather than settling for a "State University."

Second primary goal is to invest in my own private gym with a good personal trainer that can help me improve my physique and eat better too.

The girls? My brothers, life is good and I am the prize - they'd be chasing me.

Since I'll never get the above, I'll have to emulate it and do some chasing..
 

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Originally posted by DeathDealer
The girls? My brothers, life is good and I am the prize - they'd be chasing me.

Since I'll never get the above, I'll have to emulate it and do some chasing..
Dude seriously, that is terrible. There are 2 things money cannot buy and those are Confi and dence; the two things you need more than anything else.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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this test sux. A lot of the things that would make me happy involve needing more money. So does that make me unhappy right now ? Uh.......no !
 
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