"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I know this is AFC-ish but I need help.

I need to know how I can pull this off.

I am sitting there in my speech class talking up this one girl that I am attracted to. Sitting there talking and all of a sudden she askes me "are you gay" I answer with "Yeah babe. You can crawl into bed with me naked anytime" She laughed and said "I had to know" I know this is good and everything.

My question now is how would you guys go about asking her out after she drops the are you gay line on me?

P.S. I do not dress or look gay at all
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

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no, oh no.. are YOU gay??? :D
 
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you say: Let's hang out some time
she says: that'dd be cool
you say: So what's your # I'll call you sometime

simple as that,pal
 
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I'm confused. She asked you if you were gay and you said yes?

I have never had a chick ask me (seriously, anyway) if I was gay. Seems like a pretty strange thing to do if you ask me. Is this girl a homophobe or something?
 
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that means that she wants you to make your move or something, shes thinking youre a homo cause all you do is talk talk talk but you get no action going on. but next time just tell her "just because you give me that cheap line im not gonna be any easier, you have to work more, to get me"
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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thank you guys

lol, no I am not gay.

triple ultima first off, when she asks you if you are gay it actually means why won't you date me or anyone (Pook)
I said no seriously than I said that yeah thing sarcastically.

And to undisputed I barely ever talk to this girl at all but could tell she actually wants me.
 
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nah. what i meant was that, it was a response. hehe that was how i would respond to a line like that. i wasn't trying to say you're gay.
 
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DJ Alejandro, I like that. I wish I would have used that. Next time I get that line i will use it.
 
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Respond as Prince would...

"No. Are you?"
 
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It could be the way you hold yourself. Walk strong like a man, that will ensure that you don't look gay.

Its not what you wear, its how you wear it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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REJECTED!

i asked her out(two days ago) and she said "I don't know" I said "okay, think about it for a while" and walked away and thinking all well she did not want me because she nexted me or something so i thought time for the next girl.
NEXT!!!
 
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