"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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"are you gay" line

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I know this is AFC-ish but I need help.

I need to know how I can pull this off.

I am sitting there in my speech class talking up this one girl that I am attracted to. Sitting there talking and all of a sudden she askes me "are you gay" I answer with "Yeah babe. You can crawl into bed with me naked anytime" She laughed and said "I had to know" I know this is good and everything.

My question now is how would you guys go about asking her out after she drops the are you gay line on me?

P.S. I do not dress or look gay at all
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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DJ Alejandro

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no, oh no.. are YOU gay??? :D
 

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you say: Let's hang out some time
she says: that'dd be cool
you say: So what's your # I'll call you sometime

simple as that,pal
 

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I'm confused. She asked you if you were gay and you said yes?

I have never had a chick ask me (seriously, anyway) if I was gay. Seems like a pretty strange thing to do if you ask me. Is this girl a homophobe or something?
 

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that means that she wants you to make your move or something, shes thinking youre a homo cause all you do is talk talk talk but you get no action going on. but next time just tell her "just because you give me that cheap line im not gonna be any easier, you have to work more, to get me"
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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thank you guys

lol, no I am not gay.

triple ultima first off, when she asks you if you are gay it actually means why won't you date me or anyone (Pook)
I said no seriously than I said that yeah thing sarcastically.

And to undisputed I barely ever talk to this girl at all but could tell she actually wants me.
 

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nah. what i meant was that, it was a response. hehe that was how i would respond to a line like that. i wasn't trying to say you're gay.
 

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DJ Alejandro, I like that. I wish I would have used that. Next time I get that line i will use it.
 

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Respond as Prince would...

"No. Are you?"
 

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It could be the way you hold yourself. Walk strong like a man, that will ensure that you don't look gay.

Its not what you wear, its how you wear it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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REJECTED!

i asked her out(two days ago) and she said "I don't know" I said "okay, think about it for a while" and walked away and thinking all well she did not want me because she nexted me or something so i thought time for the next girl.
NEXT!!!
 
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